Because my boyfriend and i have been together for about 4mths tomorrow and i love him so much,but the only problem is that we dont really live in the same area.(and i dont want him to hurt me)
2006-12-11 04:20:49 · 9 answers · asked by Samantha 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It kinda depends on the ages. From my experience the younger the man, the more likely that he'll cheat in a long distance relationship. The older and more committed they are, the long distance relationship will most likely work out. Good Luck!
2006-12-11 04:29:07 · answer #1 · answered by middelmom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to believe in your heart that he can be trusted. But he has to earn this trust FIRST. If he's already done something, then maybe u shouldnt trust him just yet. But as more time passes, and he shows you how trustworthy he is, then your trust should come naturally. I was in a long distance relationship (im in cali & she was in georgia) for 9 months and im typically not a very trusting person because ive been cheated on twice. But she proved herself and my trust in her has been solid. We're still together (going on 2 yrs). So you have to trust your own instincts first.
2006-12-11 04:27:52 · answer #2 · answered by Raynebow_Diva 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
four months is not long. your relationship is just beginning. how did you meet? its called trust my dear. either you do or you don't. that's all one can do until or if ever you can prove differently. if someone is going to cheat they will cheat man/woman. near or far. since this is a new relationship time is an essence. if you were together 2 or more years i suggest you would leave and be with him. however i don't know your age? or his so i cant or wont advise you in case a minor.be patient, talk to him and go from there.
2006-12-11 04:31:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, it depends on the kind of relationship you have with him. did you meet him online and havent really seen him in real life ( to see how he really acts). He could lie to you on the phone all day but you really have to know him to trust him. Does he love you the same way you love him? Have you had a serious conversation about being faithful to each other?
2006-12-11 04:25:44 · answer #4 · answered by joseph i 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long distance relationships are difficult to maintain. I was in one for a while. As time passes you tend to drift apart. you meet other people that are more convenient to you and so will he. I am not saying this will happen to you. Try and keep in touch and visit whenever possible.
2006-12-11 04:24:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read your own question, and notice a little word that is often abused but is necessary for a healthy relationship. Hint: the word is TRUST!!
2006-12-11 04:23:05 · answer #6 · answered by Premo Mom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him in the middle of the night, if he sounds huffy he was probely having with another girl.
2006-12-11 04:24:31 · answer #7 · answered by jeff b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can only trust him and hopes he doesn't cheat and lies about it....
2006-12-11 04:23:03 · answer #8 · answered by JohnS 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well that depends on what u think
2006-12-11 04:24:23 · answer #9 · answered by David T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋