Family & Relationships - 11 December 2006

I've been with my girlfriend for 4 months now and every time we have sex she always compares me with the men in her past, Not in a bad way I always come out being the best in her oppinion. Anyway... She has had over 20 different Parteners Many are one night stands some with other women. She said all this happened over 7 yrs ago. and as recent as this past yr. I told her how I felt about her past and I fear that one day that she will become weak and give in to the temptations of other men and ruin all we worked hard for. How do I get over this fear?

2006-12-11 03:47:34 · 6 answers · asked by zackbjj 1 in Singles & Dating

I am looking for my son William (Billy) Campbell
born 05/04/1973 in Syracuse NY. I last heard from him in Dec. 1993 from Fort Riley, Kansas. I hope someone could please help me. Than You

2006-12-11 03:46:52 · 13 answers · asked by wlarkins123 1 in Friends

I have been friends with this guy for 4 years. We dated but then we decided it wasnt the best time for us. The next year he got this stupid trashy girl pregnant, he was miserable but stayed with her for his daughter. She hates me and harrassed me for 2 years because we were still friends and he is in love with me (never with her though). She finally stopped after I called the police because of her threats. She called me racial slurs and threatened to slash my tires. 2 weeks ago the guy and I started talking about getting together. Well apparently he started sleeping with her again 2 months ago and didnt tell me and now she is preg again. The guy and I obviously have no relationship in the cards now besides friendship. Im wondering should I keep this guy as my friend or just let it go and cut my loses?

2006-12-11 03:46:26 · 4 answers · asked by SassySister 2 in Singles & Dating

we love each other so much and we are getting married soon. you can hardly tell cos she looks really young for her age and pretty too. She respects me a lot and vice versa. i wish she was younger and she wishes i was older, but we are putting that aside and going for it. is there anyone is this situation that can share their experiences?

2006-12-11 03:46:26 · 26 answers · asked by ddman 2 in Marriage & Divorce

He has accused me of cheating on him and i havent!!!! i cant take it much longer, he wants to talk to me but when he or i call one another, he usually has to go! i asked him what was wrong the other night and he said nothing, the next morning i got a message that implied that i was cheating.. what do i do?

2006-12-11 03:46:12 · 25 answers · asked by everskullz 1 in Singles & Dating

If you have been seeing someone and you think it might be done, but you are never actually told that, do you assume it is over? Do you ask? Do you bother about it at all if it was never going to be anything long term?

2006-12-11 03:45:19 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Thanks

2006-12-11 03:44:44 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have watched it with boyfriends and a few gals. did lots of experimentation. I even have thoughts of it all day. I am not sure that since I am in my 30s that my sex drive is just getting out of control. has anyone else had these issues?

2006-12-11 03:44:27 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This is a "survey" for married couples or those living together.

Please give a quick sketch of how much domestic work (cooking, cleaning, childcare, etc), the woman does, and how much the man does (use percentages if possible, in your household.

Also, it would help if you gave examples or exceptions. Such as: the woman does all other domestic work EXCEPT cooking, which the man does.

If you feel like it, try to think of ONE thing that the man or woman would NEVER do, such as: "The man would never change a diaper", or "The woman would NEVER fix the toilet".

I'm using this info for an paper...so I'd appreciate serious responses. Thanks!

2006-12-11 03:44:18 · 14 answers · asked by Gwynneth Of Olwen 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

You see, I have this huge crush on my classmate.....and unfortunately, we're not very close......I can't even think of considering myself as a close friend of his'.........well, anyways, how can I tell, show or express my feelings for him, in not so many words???

2006-12-11 03:44:17 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My story is long, it started 1.5 year ago, I fell in love with my teacher in the university, at first he dislike me, but as the time pass he started to like me. when i started to talk with him the things was diffcult cuz y get nervous, but after i began to feel at easy with him, principally cuz he gave the liberties: even he was hurry he helped me with the things i asked him, he was something special with me, we sometimes were flirtatous, in brief he was different with me. but he never take the initiative with the situatio, was me the one that create teh posibilities 4 be toghether, so i feel the thnigs don't was working so i decided stopped. so when i stopped he started to do stranges things like: be around to me, follow me, talk about me with his friend, spy me (he and hi friends). take me photos etc. so i started to talk with him again, and we were more flirtatous in fact in a pair of ocassions he suggested something about his house, but we didn't advnace in anyway.

2006-12-11 03:44:06 · 12 answers · asked by Muteki na Bengoshi 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-11 03:43:22 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i thank there one of my best qualities

2006-12-11 03:43:09 · 6 answers · asked by cbakakale@sbcglobal.net 2 in Singles & Dating

I have, and they are really nice. No-one feels like sh!t and life goes on like normal.

2006-12-11 03:43:07 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i met this gothic girl but she only date gothic people like her so ..i have stopped listening to gangsta rap ,, replaced it with heavey metel .. i got rid of all my bandana's i started wearing black clothes
i put white stuff under my eyes around my lips.. i started watching vampires movies... i changed my name to " the dark side"
and i soon im going to be bisexual ill be walking around diseasing people but its okay ...... but shes still wont look at me ??!!?
im actually starting seeing dead people !!!!
what esle she wants from me ?!?
is there a book teach me how to be gothic ? or any websites so i can register?? and be an offical gothic



one more thing .. can i be a gothic boy at night and a normall boy at
day time is this possible? because i have a crush on a normall girl too

2006-12-11 03:42:01 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if a guy tells your closest friend he loves you and doesn't want her to tell you is he really interested?

2006-12-11 03:41:05 · 13 answers · asked by vanessa 1 in Singles & Dating

Throughout college, i've resisted drama but it has found me. this is hard to follow but i have a gf who i been with for a yr. i thought we were going to break up. i sent a poem to another girl, not trying to hook up with her but trying to make her feel good and cheer her up. then things got strange bc we sorta liked each other based upon poetry. now i am trying to work things out with my gf, bc we reconnected. i told her about the weirdness with the other girl and she said that it hurt but we'd work it out. i was starting to get paranoid bc the friends of this other girl started to look at me strangely so i thought that she told them and i told a female friend of mine. then a mutual friend of my gf and the other told my gf that she knew about our correspondence. i don't know if the other girl told people or if it was the girl i told who is babbing. how can i find out? i an scared that i betrayed the trust of the other girl and that she told no one.

2006-12-11 03:40:49 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

All I want is to have a friendly chat with men online. However, the majority (based on several years of experience) seem incapable of talking about anything other than s e x!

They usually ask if I'm single - which I am and this seems to give them carte blanch to engineer the conversation towards s e x! Do you think I'm encouraging them by admitting my single status, or am I right in my increasingly cynical view, that's why they are here in the first place?

I know there are some genuinely nice guys out there and I have no wish to offend them by this question!

2006-12-11 03:40:10 · 25 answers · asked by Colette 5 in Singles & Dating

I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years. He is the type that change does not come easily to him. We have both agreed to keep this relationship slow, but it has been 5 years and he can't even ask me for my hand in marriage. He already knows that I want to be engaged for a long time before marriage, it is just the thought that he does want to be with me for the rest of our lives together. I don't know what to do at this point he won't even commit on living with me.
Is it because he hates change?
Or is this relationship going anywhere?
Are more relationships like this?
Does this mean that after 5 years he doesn't think he wants to be with me?
Should I give this more time?

2006-12-11 03:39:30 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Should I let her go or should I make her do what is her womanly duty

2006-12-11 03:39:28 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

would i able to marry my love rabal born on 8 august 1985

2006-12-11 03:38:28 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My younger sister who is 20 moved away from home 5 months ago. About two month later, she called and said that she was dating someone who was moving too fast and that she wasn't sure. But then, about two weeks ago, she wanted to introduce him to the family. We finally met him this weekned, and....it was less than steller. This guy completely comes off as pompous, arrogant, and very self centered. While my family tends to be more reserved and tradtional with new guests and first visits, this guy was very dominating, loud, opinionated and did not "fit-in".
Now she wanted to bring him back for a weekend stay next weekend, and then go with him to visit his family the Christmas break. Supposedly he has also been ring shopping.
Our concern is that one he is not the right guy, and second, even if he were, that they should take it slow and get to really know each other. We want her to learn and grow, but not get into a permanent/long term bad situation. Any advice on how to approach?

2006-12-11 03:37:42 · 8 answers · asked by Concerned 1 in Singles & Dating

guys more then it was going to be girls he got up set like what is his name were is he from how old is he and his background. Im saying to myself were just friends why you all getting upset with me and all i wanted was your advice on what i should wear going out and he got mad. Is this a sign of jealously, or he likes me. three has feelings for me or maybe keep your mouth shut and dont say nothing to him about anything. I need a guy advice on this one and my sistas to.

2006-12-11 03:37:28 · 4 answers · asked by jazzyjqween 1 in Friends

if yes why ? if no why? if you are a man whay grosses you out about this??

2006-12-11 03:36:47 · 16 answers · asked by FOXY 2 in Singles & Dating

there has been a lot of drama in my family recently and i've had to remove myself from the situation entirely.....it's really rather depressing....especially this time of year for some reason.....how do you cope with not having family??

2006-12-11 03:36:42 · 4 answers · asked by SNAP! 4 in Family

we often argue and fight and we call each other names for example he called me b***, c*** and that i'm not mrs. skinny..i called him names too...but when i mentioned something about his mother he really got mad i thought he was going to hurt me and yelled at me to stop talking about his mother etc. so i said ok. ok just so he can calm down and not pshysically attack me and i never seen him so mad and he started threatening me with divorce and so on...i think that if me and her were both drowning he would jump to save her. I think he deserves to have his mother and maybe marry her instead.
I feel like i come second after her and he would prefer her instead of me any time, so next time he ask me for sex i'll tell him to go to his mother instead!!!!
I think this relationship is not healthy because he makes me cry alot and i'm getting really depressed. Is it abusive?

2006-12-11 03:36:33 · 22 answers · asked by rosie ross 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-11 03:36:07 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Her name's Diyanah and his name is Putra.

They're both neighbors and Diyanah's having a major crush on Putra..

Diyanah: 8th grade, sweet, kind, helpful, loves to swim(she's tall and lanky)..Plays soccer cuz Putra's in love with that game..

Putra: 11th grade, keeps to himself, soccer-maniac, kinda buff, goes to the gym every week..

Both of them are good-looking..Diyanah's really pretty, and she could be a teen model. Putra's handsome, well not that tall and kinda strong built(but he's not a body-builder, so his muscles aren't that huge)..

Do you think they match??Their names, personality, looks??Should Diyanah forget about Putra?Should Putra ask Diyanah out?

2006-12-11 03:36:06 · 7 answers · asked by Jayden 3 in Singles & Dating

I am getting married to my fiance` on 25th of december. She was very afraid and confused about the wedding night stuff. Actually we never had sex before, not to each other or anyone. It will be our first experience. She said that she's very afraid of the first time sex because its very painful and she would bleed too.... Well, i am pretty aware of the female physiology and anatomy, but i don't know about psychology. If the first time sex is painful, will i not be hurting her then? I am also confused as how would i begin the whole thing. OK, we'll talk for a long time but how do i start first...I..I am confused about it myself. getting naked in front of her will be quite a very very new thing for me.... Plz folks, help me out as how to spend my first wedding night (apart from talking stuff, i'll talk don't worry), but i don't want to cause her pain or any other physical trouble. And i am also afraid that maybe for the first time, i'll ejaculate so early as to the level of embarassment.

2006-12-11 03:35:28 · 25 answers · asked by Paf230 1 in Weddings

2006-12-11 03:35:27 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce