help please?

Question

My story is long, it started 1.5 year ago, I fell in love with my teacher in the university, at first he dislike me, but as the time pass he started to like me. when i started to talk with him the things was diffcult cuz y get nervous, but after i began to feel at easy with him, principally cuz he gave the liberties: even he was hurry he helped me with the things i asked him, he was something special with me, we sometimes were flirtatous, in brief he was different with me. but he never take the initiative with the situatio, was me the one that create teh posibilities 4 be toghether, so i feel the thnigs don't was working so i decided stopped. so when i stopped he started to do stranges things like: be around to me, follow me, talk about me with his friend, spy me (he and hi friends). take me photos etc. so i started to talk with him again, and we were more flirtatous in fact in a pair of ocassions he suggested something about his house, but we didn't advnace in anyway.

lost the patiente cuz i thouhg that he was interested in me about all 4 his actions (he spied me from his office 4 hours, he got angry whne i talked with another teachers or guys, and another like this), but maybe he cant take the desition, y could help him, so one day i plucked up the courage and i said him "you like me too much", he got nervous only smiled and said me "no" i asked him "you mean the answer is no?" ahn he said "no..... yes" then he didin't want talk with me, he scape form me when i tried to talk, when at least i could talk with him i said " i want talk about what happenned" and he told me "waht happenend? dind'nt happen anyhthing" y can't understand him waht tried to mean? i dislike him, wich i told him is not important for him? waht happens? what's you opinnion about it? ps, he's only 10 years oldder than me and is single

Answer 1

Well, I would be careful if I was you. maybe he really likes/loves you, but he's afraid to do anything cuz he's scared for his carrier. But he's really into you. I mean, it's better this way. Hold your horses!
Imagine him acting totally opposite! God knows how many women would he have... And all of them wouln't know for each other cuz he would tell every girl that their relationship must remain secret! My teacher was like that! And... they had him fired... Believe me, these things always come to surface...
So , do you now agree that it's all better this way?

Maybe he spyed on you because he thought that the reason for you not speaking to him was some other boy, and since he can't do much from his position...Well, you got the point.

PS If he's 10 years older, he has 10 years of life xpirience too.
Maybe he had problems with some other girl, maybe she was blackmailing him, maybe he whitnessed this happened to his friend, it could be many reasons... but he's deffinetly, for some reason, very precautious...

My personal advice: If you love him, don't give up. Never give up on love...

Answer 2

it depends on how much developed you are. 16 is kind of late to be "just starting" but it is possible. have you had a wet dream yet? if not,your body might not be ready for this. you can email me if you want to discuss youe particular situation but here is some basic advice. there is a muscle between yolur legs, if you peniis is like half hard you can make it stiffer by tensing this muscle. you need to tense this muscle when you stroke. tense and stroke for 10 to 20 seconds, then relax a few sec, then repreat. speed about 1 to 2 strokes per second. then if you start to feel a tingling, or like you need to pee, then don't stop, start stroking as fast as you can for as long as you can, and that might be enough to push you over the edge to climax. hope this helps. I am a parent.

Answer 3

Spying? Stalker!! Controlling stalker from the sounds of it.


Dump him, move on. Trust me, this boy has three red flags alone from the description. Also, teacher student relations, even at University, is a baaaad idea. It causes bad mojo and you really don't want to deal with that.

For a University student, your writing is barely coherent. You might want to work on that.

Answer 4

well the age difference makes a difference depending on what age you are. the older you get the less it matters, but if you are 18 and he is 28 i think that is kind of gross. the last i heard professors were not allowed to enter into personal, romantic relationships with their students. if he does not care about his career than think what else he does not respect. and then it sounds like he is a creep. i would stop talking to him and see if you can transfer classes to have another teacher.

Answer 5

Go for it girl.

Hooking up w/the professor sounds hot. I'd do it.

Make sure he knows you're interested again. During class, make eye contact with him, look down, smile, and blush. Do that and he'll know there is something there. Make some excuse to see him in his office or after class. Ask him if he's free to get a coffee and take it from there!

Answer 6

he really does like you. why else would he act this way. you think 10 years is a big difference. the guy i like is more than 15 years older than me but less than 20 years older.and i think he likes me.
if you like him just tell him and if you don't tell him to **** off and if he still doesn't after this tell him you'll get a restraining order put on him.

Answer 7

Hmmm to me its a matter of always wanting what you can't have. He started watching you, take pics, after you called 'it' off.

I would stand on guard. It all seems a little weird.

Answer 8

well girl the only thing i can say to you would be dont get involved with teachers thier too much drama.

Answer 9

I don't think you should date him while you're a student. That could cause problems with you and with him.

Answer 10

Don't date him. It's unethical.