I've been with my girlfriend for 4 months now and every time we have sex she always compares me with the men in her past, Not in a bad way I always come out being the best in her oppinion. Anyway... She has had over 20 different Parteners Many are one night stands some with other women. She said all this happened over 7 yrs ago. and as recent as this past yr. I told her how I felt about her past and I fear that one day that she will become weak and give in to the temptations of other men and ruin all we worked hard for. How do I get over this fear?
2006-12-11 03:47:34 · 6 answers · asked by zackbjj 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She needs to understand that being honest with each other does not mean that she needs to share intimate details of her past with you or vice-versa.
The past is just that...the past. Have a conversation with her telling her that you would prefer not to hear details of her past partners... and of your concerns about commitment within your relationship.
Best wishes and a very Merry Christmas to you!
2006-12-11 03:55:46 · answer #1 · answered by Buff 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you have to worry about her giving into so called temptation. I can see where she is coming from. She is probably giving you compliments about your performance because she wants to boost your confidence in her. Since she is very experienced she probably thinks you are thinking about this all the time and wondering if you measure up. The past is the past....you can have many sexual encounters that don't mean anything but sex, but then you find someone you care about and all you want is them.
2006-12-11 11:55:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she hasn't done anything to make you suspicious then you should let it lie for a little bit....i know how you feel my bf is the 5th person i've been with....he thinks its' a lttle high...but what if she started asking you abotu eveyrthing you've evern done??
trust her in the relationship and tell her it makes you feel bad when she compares you to other men...she should know this already ...beware of mind games...
2006-12-11 11:53:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She clearly doesn't worry about how many partners she has. You are just the next number. Sorry.
2006-12-11 11:53:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell you know all of that but is she clean? Get yourself tested for STD/aids. You never know what she might have.
2006-12-11 11:51:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LoL sounds like my ex man! dont worry about it, if she loves ya she'll stick around
2006-12-11 11:51:41 · answer #6 · answered by Jesus Built My Hotrod 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋