i met this gothic girl but she only date gothic people like her so ..i have stopped listening to gangsta rap ,, replaced it with heavey metel .. i got rid of all my bandana's i started wearing black clothes
i put white stuff under my eyes around my lips.. i started watching vampires movies... i changed my name to " the dark side"
and i soon im going to be bisexual ill be walking around diseasing people but its okay ...... but shes still wont look at me ??!!?
im actually starting seeing dead people !!!!
what esle she wants from me ?!?
is there a book teach me how to be gothic ? or any websites so i can register?? and be an offical gothic
one more thing .. can i be a gothic boy at night and a normall boy at
day time is this possible? because i have a crush on a normall girl too
2006-12-11 03:42:01 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I truly hope this question is a joke. Because if it isn't, then you are the joke!
What kind of a loser would change everything about himself for a girl? You are willing to change the music you listen to, the clothes you wear, the way you look, and becoming bi-sexual? Are you f*cking nuts?
All of this because you like one girl? Why don't you grow up, get some self-esteem, be who you want to be, and then meet someone who likes that person.
Don't you realize that even if you hook up with this girl, one day you are going to wake up and say, 'What the f*ck am I doing?!' And then you are going to revert back to 'normal' and break up with this girl.
Grow a pair and grab onto them and be the man that you always hoped you would become some day.
2006-12-11 03:48:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why did you even consider of changing yourself so a girl will like yo. I just don't think that's right. A person should like you for who you are. A bit of a change is okay, but THAT much is just too extreme. Do you really think what you're doing is worth it? Like you said, she still doesn't notice you after all that. Don't you think it's time to move on and find someone who likes you for being yourself?
2006-12-11 11:47:56 · answer #2 · answered by Chia Pet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously man, wtf is wrong wid u? You should never change for a girl, let her come to u man, be natural, be WHO U ARE, man think rlly hard and ask urself, why do i like this girl? Is it becuase she is hot? is it becuase u like the way she looks and u have never said a word to her?? if u said yes to any of those questions then u dont like her, u r infatuated. Man if she is a real goth, and u are not, then u would have never liked her personality. Beauty is only skin deep man, trust me man, it will cause problems later. move on. There are lots of beautiful women out there.
2006-12-11 11:51:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow! do u think any girl on earth would be interested in a guy with absolutely no personality or character of his own!! ur ready to change everything in u cos it MAY impress a girl, and I bet ya u'd change all over again for another girl..get real..find out who u really are as a person, do what u like, believe what u believe..only then u might impress a girl for real..u have no clue my friend..what ur doing will turn off any girl..be genuine, be urself
2006-12-11 11:49:06 · answer #4 · answered by GucciRush 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about: stop role-playing and be yourself! (Is this question serious, actually?).
If the girl is worth it, she should like you for your true self, not some "image". If she doesn't like you, then all the black eye-liner and lipstick in the WORLD isn't going to make her!
Still, here's some links for you, if you insist:
http://www.religioustolerance.org/goth.htm (not what it sounds like....mostly deals w/pagan stuff, which many goths like).
http://www.dir.webring.com/rw?d=Cultures___Community/Gothic (probably one of the best)
http://www.fmgothiclinks.com
http://fashion.about.com/cs/glossary/g/bldefgoth.htm (definition of "Goth" and links to blogs
http://www.gothpassions.com/seeme/ravyn.html
2006-12-11 11:55:03 · answer #5 · answered by Gwynneth Of Olwen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BE YOURSELF. If she can't accept you for who you are, she'll never accept you. If you like being Gothic, do it, but if you don't, be who you were before.
((Never a true Goth, or anything else, unless it's what you want.))
2006-12-11 11:45:15 · answer #6 · answered by Ema Nova 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself, and find a girl that likes you for what you really are. Stop wasting your time pretending.
2006-12-11 11:45:42 · answer #7 · answered by deerogre 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that Bill Gates is your daddy.
2006-12-11 11:45:23 · answer #8 · answered by guru 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her you're a doctor
2006-12-11 11:44:09 · answer #9 · answered by Cheesy Stuff 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be urself... if she wanted a gay guy, would u become gay
2006-12-11 11:45:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋