My ex picks up our daughter everyother weekend and recently called and cursed at me so then my husband and i told him not to call over here any more and hes mad so now he drop her off yesterday and said for now on his bringing her back an hour later since hes not going to be calling anymore and i'm only going by the court papers on the visitation. and he said if we don't like it to take him to court. should i let it go or do something about it he the one making everything harder and on top of that he had not paid child support in 8 years thats how old our daughter i got my first check hes crying over 54 dollars
2006-12-11 04:19:12 · 9 answers · asked by coolmesillyme 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
actually i was never married and he never really pay any attention to her and everyone needs to remember that you have not been in my steps and my daughter is the one suffering as far as seeing him she just hates him because she saids he was never there and he has been rude to me in front of her and tells her things and he wants to keep her for another hour to make us mad and yes my husband is involved in this because he married thats what REAL relationships do actually he has supported her since hes been with me!
2006-12-11 06:05:15 · update #1
You will have to go by what the judge has for visitation. If he cannot abide by what the court has set, then yes you need to take him back for contempt of court.
2006-12-11 04:25:57 · answer #1 · answered by Premo Mom 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think making child support payments gives him the right to his daughter. Since he is not paying he may not have any rights. As a matter of fact, I'm surprised he's not been ordered back to court or put in jail. I'd make it a court issue. I'm not sure why not calling you makes him an hour late. Let the courts help you soften his hardass attitude.
2006-12-11 04:29:19 · answer #2 · answered by father of 4 husband of 1 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
What is your problem girl????
#1 Remember you are the one who breed with him.
#2 Remember you are the one who is divorced from him NOT the child.
#3 His daughter is as much his as yours. Yet he has to put up with seeing her once every two weeks. Does this sound fair to you???? How would you like to see her only once every two weeks.
#4 I am sure you give him no feed back on her activities during those two weeks. How would you like to be left in the dark?
#5 Since the divorce everything has been about YOU, not about your daughter. Obvious since you already have a man in your bed.
#6 It sounds to me your are crying over $54 as much as he is.
#7 It is time to act like a grown up mom. Accept the fact you are tied to this man until the child dies (heaven forbid anytime soon)
#8 Act nice, tell your hubby to butt out, it is none of his business. (he better learn to deal with it, since he knowingly decided to be with a divorced gal with a kid)
#9 Forget the courts, learn how to act like a civil, compassionate human being.
2006-12-11 04:40:37 · answer #3 · answered by lily 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh yes he is a real jerk. As long as he isn't hurting your daughter and you can do with outh the child support. I would let your daughter spend time with her father and just let it go. Try and make nice just for the childs sake. Believe me I know it is hard. I am going through the same issue.
2006-12-11 04:26:17 · answer #4 · answered by HotMommi 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Take him back to court.
2006-12-11 04:30:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be thankful your not married to that anymore...if he can't afford to pay the childsupport, he damn sure can't afford to go to court. what a PIG!!
2006-12-11 04:50:22 · answer #6 · answered by kmoc123 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take the jerk back to court
2006-12-11 04:24:51 · answer #7 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would take his *** to court. . .he is saying go ahead but he is saying that to intimadate you. . .take him to court he will have to pay!
2006-12-11 04:30:08 · answer #8 · answered by lorisbarbie 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
He's not angry for no reason. Suck it up.
2006-12-11 04:25:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋