I have always know lust is a sin, but I always wondered if its bad to long for your own husband? What do yall think?
2006-12-11 04:29:52 · 14 answers · asked by TEXAS 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well, I have never heard of someone ask this question before. Truth is girl, lust is a natural feeling that everyone has regardless if they are married or not.You are certainly not going to be thought of bad in gods Eyes for lusting for the one that you have commited yourself to.He is your husband and you obviously love him and desire him which is a good thing.
Besides that,Gods word is a hard thing to know for sure. All our bibles and books on god and his word were all written by someone elses perception of what god wants from us.And most all have been changed and messed with over all these years by religions and profits to either hold people to stay within beliefs of that religion or to have control. I find it best to follow your heart on what is right and wrong. Understand what comes natural for the majority of people without too much thought is not anything god would give anyone a first class ticket to hell for having. good luck and lust away!
2006-12-11 04:42:54 · answer #1 · answered by vmaxer85 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lust is a actual reaction, it is not a determination one makes. it incredibly is brought about by using the launch of hormones consequently of stimuli - a twin of a tremendously companion to boot as their heady scent, physique language, etc. it is not something which would be controlled. Why might an instinctive reaction be a sin? the sole determination it incredibly is made is to act upon lust. Therein lies the sin. although, contained in the Bible, God does let us know that a guy who looks upon a woman (who isn't his spouse) with lust, has already committed adultery. for this reason, even the instinctive reaction might would desire to be seen a sin. Why that is is as much as God, i think.
2016-10-05 04:26:18 · answer #2 · answered by Erika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way! Lust is good because he is your husband:)
It would be a sin (if you want to call it so) if you lusted for someone else.
2006-12-11 04:41:57 · answer #3 · answered by Tina Shh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Lust is healthy in a marriage, there is no problem having feelings of lust for a spouse.
2006-12-11 04:37:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HELL NO! That's your spouse! Sexual desire should be about and directed at your husband or wife. Lusting for someone outside of your marriage is certainly a sin.
2006-12-11 05:45:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The bible says "the marriage bed is undefiled." That means anything the two of you consent to sexually is cool. I know what you mean because my husband and I have unequal libidos and he makes me swoon and I seem to make him.... well, usually nothing. BUT no, it isn't a sin, allthough it does remind you of those good old lusty feelings before Holy Matrimony, I agree. Keep gushing over that nice tushy with no guilt!
2006-12-11 04:51:26 · answer #6 · answered by shannonlilia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I lust after your husband too. Nothing wrong with it at all.
2006-12-11 04:55:45 · answer #7 · answered by MrNiceGuy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no it's not, that's part of marraige. lust is generally a sin of self-gratification or checking out others or having sexual relations just for the heck of it. lusting for your husband is just another way of loving him as deeply as you can.
2006-12-11 04:38:03 · answer #8 · answered by Danny K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is normal. If u lusted for me then that would be a problem we'd have to work out
2006-12-11 04:35:09 · answer #9 · answered by Jim G 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hell no! You're married! Lust away...
I wish my wife still lusted after me! :-D
2006-12-11 04:38:40 · answer #10 · answered by SomeGuy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋