Heres the problem. Please read details this is very important to me..?
Ok... so I'm 15. This girl I like, I really like her. I spilled my guts to her a few months ago, and sha said she didnt like me like that. But, she emalied me a month later, and said she really misses the friendship. Well, heres the thing, We've been friends since childhood, shes 13, and just learning the ropes. I know the ropes, Ive liked many girls but none like her. Well, my bestfriend, knows how i feel, he knows how much I like her, and that i would do nething in this world to be with her. But heres the problem. He told me like a week ago, that he wont go out with her, cuz he knows how much i like her. Well as of yesterday, there goin out. And it hurts soooo bad. Like none ever before. I couldnt sleep last night, because i couldnt get it off my mind .. what should i DO?
2006-12-11 04:34:16 · 4 answers · asked by robinson z 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I mean its kinda hard just to drop them. Because they both go to my church, and I see them both all the time, and on top of that, hes my neighbor
2006-12-11 04:44:29 · update #1
This is going to sound harsh but she doesn't like you.What kin of friend will do that to you aswell,knowing how you feel?You need a change of scenery.There's plenty fish in the sea...
2006-12-11 04:39:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi I`ve beed there.. and the best adivice I can give is if u really care for her then let her be happy with who ever she is with and jst be a great friend cuz in the end thats what she will really need..good luck and remember ur jst 15 and have a long life ahead dnt get stuck one jst one girl cuz their will be many to come esp. of ur a great friend/guy
2006-12-11 12:46:43 · answer #2 · answered by littlebit_132001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, there is nothing you can do. It hurts. like hell. I've been there, but I've learned a few things, throwing a fit looks bad, fighting with him will alienate him, because obviously he isn't respecting your feelings...no matter what you say to him, he won't break up with her. fighting with him will also ruin your friendship with her. Just keep your head up, wait for them to break up (trust me, they will) and then be there to soothe her.
I know how you feel, and it sucks to be helpless, but there is nothing you can do without looking like a complete jerk.
2006-12-11 12:38:43 · answer #3 · answered by Ashley M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would confront your friend and let them know that what he did was cold and that it has upset you. Then I would find a new friend.
2006-12-11 12:37:40 · answer #4 · answered by M.S. Mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋