My bf abused me in june coz he saw me dancing with another guy. He broke up n told me im a cheap gurl along with abuses . then he stopped contacting me. But after a month he started contacting through text mesgs. Again not very pleasant mesgs. but now on 14th nov he again abused me as he kept asking me through text mesgs if i had gone on a date with another guy. But i kept silent and he again abused me through mesgs tht im a prosti**te. He told me he wants to slap me n abuse me . When 2 mesgs were sent by chance to him by me, He abused me n mesgd tht if another mesg i send...he will break my hands n abused me. Why does he abuse me???I replied tht im very much scared of him n to keep away from me . He considers me to be a very cheap gurl whereas i was with my parents when he thought me to be dating with some guy as his friends told him so.He only trusts his friends n they keep telling him im bad.NOW HE SENT 2 MESGS ON 2DEC.I MESG-HOW'S UR BF?2-I MAY B SILENT BT DEEP IN MY HEART I MISS U
2006-12-11 04:40:14 · 5 answers · asked by ciendriella 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Girl,girl, girl!!! What are you thinking??? He is like this because he is very insecure and needs to grow up. First off, You should never be controlled by anyone.You have a right to live and be happy and have respect from the person you are with.Even if he was still with you, anyone that wants to keep you from talking to anyone else or dancing with someone just because they are a person of the opposite sex means that he is a control freak and wants to own you and keep you in a shell.
I have seen it way too many times. All guys that will do this are abusive and violent people.Stay far away from him! All he is going to do is cause you pain and heart ache.You may not think so yet but one day you will find a good guy and know what its like to really be loved.But first you need to have respect for yourself and know how you want things in your life to be without someone.Live by what you want best for yourself without exception and the rest will follow. good luck and again...Stay clear of this guy and his idiot friends!
2006-12-11 04:56:44 · answer #1 · answered by vmaxer85 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy is a LOSER! No more communication whatsoever, or you may find yourself injured permanently or even worse. You need a good role model to talk to, if not a parent, then a teacher, aunt, school counselor, somebody who can help u realize that you deserve more than this. There are decent boys/men out there who won't treat u this way. This character is sick.
2006-12-11 04:47:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IGNORE HIM!! Don't have anything to do with this guy, he is very emotionally unstable and is an unhealthy person for you to be around. Trust me, there are other BETTER fish in the sea....move on from him now before you get hurt!
Best Wishes ~*~
2006-12-11 04:44:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay far away from him. I would also report his abuse to the police.
2006-12-11 04:43:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
contact your cell phone provider & have your number changed. also, consider filing a police report.
2006-12-11 04:44:12 · answer #5 · answered by Magick Kitty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋