This is my problem: I know this cute guy who's in my best friend's class.....he talks to both of us....but talks to her with a better level of comfort...when I start talking to him.he actually blushes and says that I am too formal...he also says that he gets scared of people who have an extremely formal way of speaking...Since he is a decent, nice, cute and a smart guy..I thought being formal wud create a better impression...when i was speaking to him...He commented with a jinxed expression on his face........I wonder how Am I supposed to make this girl talk???....I remember when he was talking to me he was actually looking at me and giving me a nice cute...romantic look...Now how am I supposed to know whether he really likes me or not ?????????..Also he is quite a serious kinda guy with a professional sort of attitude
2006-12-11 04:40:29 · 10 answers · asked by Nilima L 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First off, regardless of what your heart tells you or how your mind forces you to think, DO NOT obsess with a guy you can never have. There are so many more fish in the sea, so many more guys you can love who actually deserve your love. Do not ever hurt yourself for some guy who will never learn to appreciate you. The signs are the following:
If you are his candidate for a Booty Call and then he doesn't know you during the day.
If he uses you.
If he abuses you.
If he hurts you. For instance, he calls you Fat. He doesn't tease you playfully, he downright treats you like garbage.
If he talks behind your back about you. If he starts rumours about you...
Understand this, guys can really be evil sometimes. Move on if you answered yes to any of the above.
Now that we've got that out of the way, here comes the juicy part. How can you tell if a guy likes you? You like him. You feel it in the gut he likes you back. But you need some substantial proof. I will not go into the types of guys out there, because in the end, there will always be a group of guys who have no niche to fall into. These tips are not foolproof, since human nature is always fickle. So, I suggest you read this and use it as a reference and not your bible.
Strategy ONE
Ask him. He says he likes you. Case closed. You are done. But, fearing rejection, can you even do that? If only things were so simple. I'll tell you this. Just ask him. This will save you a lot of time. If he says no, then you can understand that he doesn't and may not even after knowing you for a bit of time. Therefore, it will be him who regrets later on when he falls for you in return, granted you guys will hang out and stuff... Maybe not, since if he does reject you, it will be too embarassing... So what you can do is this....
"Do you like me?"
"No."
"I knew it! I don't like you either." Haha!
"Do you like me?"
"Yes, as a friend."
"Me too. I was worried because I thought you didn't like me as a friend..." Saved!
If he says he likes you in a way that he likes you likes you and not as friend, then you've just scored yourself your dream guy.
Signs that he likes you He blushes and sweats. You intimidate him.
He stares at you. (He can be a stalker, beware)
He does things to deliberately gain your attention.
He stutters when he speaks to you.
His pupils dilate when you are up close and you see them... Beware, pupils dilate when it is dim, mostly.
He waits for you. He looks out for you.
He laughs at your jokes when no one else does.
He teases you because he wants you to remember and notice him.
He listens to you and actually remembers little details.
He notices slight changes in your appearance.
He seems sad when you ignore him.
He seems jealous when you are with another guy. Whoo.
His friends all know you when you don't know them.
He smiles back when you smile at him.
He often stares at you and when you catch him, he does that cute head turn, very fast!
He performs sweet acts for you. He defends and protects you. He tolerates you being mean to him.
Signs that he is a player
He is a smooth talker. He is very comfortable around you.
He places his hands on you with ease.
Every other girl likes him.
Just be careful.
There are many more signs, but anyway, just go with your heart, take care of yourself, and let things happen naturally. If it's meant to be, it's meant to be.
2006-12-11 05:11:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
The best advice I can give, is to be yourself. To speak formally to him means that you are putting on an impression that is not really you. Just relax and speak to him as you would any of your friends as he IS one is he not?
If he likes you, he will come across to you, so get him chattng in a relaxed way and see how things go
2006-12-11 06:41:16 · answer #2 · answered by rockandrollrev 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea i no its well annoyin init jst lyke either get wid dem or not stop askin uz to read ur minds lkye uh im soooo anoyed.
2016-05-23 05:34:29 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GIve some time. Keep on meeting him. If both of u have same feelings, it would surely come forard in a couple of days.
2006-12-11 05:22:28 · answer #4 · answered by Cligztraizt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get your friend who's in his class to ask him about you, test the waters before you jump in,
2006-12-11 04:42:53 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit wondering and just wait and see if he says he likes you. That's all you can do.
2006-12-11 04:43:05 · answer #6 · answered by Pache 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is a seriously proffesional Guy, then seriouslly ask him professionally, if he likes you.
2006-12-11 04:43:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2016-10-28 19:24:31 · answer #8 · answered by far 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait patiently for some more time
2006-12-11 05:00:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know
2006-12-11 04:44:51 · answer #10 · answered by RaquelSolo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋