Is love enough to make him come back.?
my ex and i broke up a while ago. he says hhe loves me . he says his heart is with me n will always be.he sed if u love some one let them go if they come back there always ures. i have been a cow to him since we broke up because i didnt know how to deal with it. threatening him with various things, which i regret totally.
he now says he needs to 'find out who he is', his 'heart is with me but his head isnt' and 'circumstances mean we cnt be together at mo' becaus he cant forget the bad stuff that happened at the end. some explanations please. is he needing this time to forget the bad stuff , if so do u think he ever will? or can if he LOVES ME
the whole purpose of not finding somone knew is thti love him and know it can be gd
i asked if he waNts me to move on , and he sed no he doesnt but knows he cant tell me to wait.
he says his heart is always with him but his head not with me at the moment. dont say move on bcus how can i knowin he loves me and i him. do u think love is enuf
2006-12-11 04:50:22 · 8 answers · asked by lola f 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If he really loved you, he would be with you and not feeding you all of this crap. You need to put one over on him like he is doing to you at the moment. Tell him when he calls, that you can't talk now, you are late, and to call you tomorrow, if he asks to see you, tell him you have plans, sorry call in a couple of days, don't let him see you/hear you cry, act happy, and tell him you understand now what he has been meaning and you totally agree and you are glad he did it. Tell him , he is in your heart as well but you also need to find out who you are. All of this will confuse him and you will feel better. Get out and do something, don't sit and wait for him. There is life beyond him.
2006-12-11 04:55:25 · answer #1 · answered by Premo Mom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on. You sounds young and are still learning the ups and downs about love if you were having problem then and he comes back the problem return too. they never go away and can come back to you all over again,
2006-12-11 12:58:47 · answer #2 · answered by sweetlittlerowanandmia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With love all things are possible. But do you guys really love each other or are you finding it difficult to let go. Leave your 'ex' and move on with your life.
2006-12-11 13:05:54 · answer #3 · answered by Melody 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he doesn't have the balls enough to tell you he wants to move on...of course he may still love you...but still does that mean you belong to each other...I know that my husband and I should not be together sometimes but yet we still live together and there are times I want to kill him, and I hate him.......why stay...hell I don't know...we love each other...its sad..i know....good luck!!! But he needs to tell you quick so that you can move on....he wants to have it all....maybe you should for your own sake....move on
2006-12-11 13:00:58 · answer #4 · answered by hatchetmistress 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just give it some time if u feel the same way in a month or two then tell him that u want to work things out.
2006-12-11 12:53:31 · answer #5 · answered by daytona_girl18 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit kidding yourself. open your eyes and move on! He has already!
2006-12-11 13:01:25 · answer #6 · answered by WENDY G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you two are meant to be--then it will be--if not--then there is someone else meant for you.
2006-12-11 12:52:42 · answer #7 · answered by smeezleme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are being played.
2006-12-11 12:51:50 · answer #8 · answered by Curly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋