My girlfriend is my first girlfriend and only girl I have ever slept with.
Everytime she talks about getting married I feel sick to my stomach. I feel like it will be the end of my freedom/life. I'm 20 and have been with my girl for 3 years.
I've broken out of my shy shell and am confindent talking to other ladies. I wonder what it would be like to be with other women.
2006-12-11 05:16:01 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Aaron and Angela good answers. They both conflict with each other too...
2006-12-11 05:44:39 · update #1
If you have doubts - don't marry her. You are just a baby still, although you may not think so, you are not fully grown up yet. You will change a lot between 20 and 25 years old. Trust me, I'm 46 now and I've been there. Live life! Do not get married so young especially if you think you'll be missing out on something. There is a whole world out there for you to explore. You may even want to take a break from this relationship and try to date other women. What could it hurt? It is YOUR life.
I married at 18 and wish I could have explored what life had to offer before I settled in to wife and motherhood.
My sister married her first and only boyfriend and has regretted that she doesn't know what she missed.
My son married at 19 - although he loves his wife he too wishes he would have waited.
2006-12-11 05:44:46 · answer #1 · answered by PRS 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
That boat has sailed. I'm in love with my current boyfriend, we've been together for three years. Ever since I was 15 and he was 17. (I'm now 18 and he is 19, almost 20). He happens to be my 3rd boyfriend. I still have love for my first boyfriend (we did share something special) and I still talk to him but he hurt me way too much and I still haven't forgiven him. And this was over 4 years ago when I was 14.
2016-05-23 05:45:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal for your girlfriend to talk about marriage. I really don't see why you'd be sick to your stomach. You're old enough and you've been with her for 3 YEARS. That's quite impressive if you ask me.
I'm not married... but my boyfriend and I have been together for about 10 months and we talk about marriage all the time. We plan on getting married after college. No, he's not my first boyfriend... but he's the first person I had a serious relationship with.
If you really feel like you want to see other women, don't lead her on like this.
2006-12-11 05:19:52 · answer #3 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Not me. My mom and dad were boyfriend and girlfriend since they were in the 6th grade, 12 years old. They never dated anyone else and got married when they were 20 and have been married and in love, to the point of my embarrassment, for 25 years.
2006-12-11 05:25:28 · answer #4 · answered by jessica a 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think it is important to experience life while you are young. I know from experience you will not be the same person at 20 when you are 30. I wish I had spent more time getting to know myself and dating different people in my 20's instead of settling. If you are having doubts follow your instincts. If your girlfriend and you are meant to be, you will come back together.
2006-12-11 05:27:56 · answer #5 · answered by briandjoesmom 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes, I married my first boyfriend. We were married for 36 yrs. until he died suddenly 3 yrs. ago.
2006-12-11 05:21:58 · answer #6 · answered by Hamish 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, I didn't. It wouldn't have worked. I wanted to enjoy and experiement with life before settling down.
2006-12-11 05:19:01 · answer #7 · answered by FunBetty! 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
my parents were first bf/gf for each other, and just celebrated their 25th anniversary in August
2006-12-11 05:19:22 · answer #8 · answered by Richard H 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Haven't got one yet so I can't tell you.
2006-12-11 05:17:18 · answer #9 · answered by Not Known To Me. The Voter ;~`}= 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if youve got somthing good going on, why would you want to mess with it?
2006-12-11 05:18:37 · answer #10 · answered by aaron 4 · 5⤊ 1⤋