She simply asks:
After a long trip - what can i do for him when he comes home?
I think this is in fact what it is all about. What can I do to please my spouse? If both people really lived this way I think far more marriages would be happy and last. Can you honestly say you live this way. If not why not? Of course this is a two way street but why would you not do this? If you are not I think you invite trouble and possibly temptation. What do you think?
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2006-12-11 05:18:14 · 9 answers · asked by onlineseeker 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think I live this way. My husband and I do the small things that matter, such as helping the other do something without asking, bring home a favorite beverage for the other, just because. The small things are the things to be concerned with, when trying to please someone. A squeeze on the butt as one walks by, fresh warm towels after a shower, a little note on the seat of the car in the morning, an I love you out of the blue, telling someone you are so beautiful when they don't expect it, a text message in the middle of the day, a favorite meal, giving them the remote even when you are watching a program you really like, a small gift to say I was thinking of you all day, these are just some of the things my hubby and I do for each other often that aren't expected or asked for. We have a great marriage. Respect, consideration, love, understanding, more respect and liking the other person are the keys to a happy marriage.
2006-12-11 05:25:06 · answer #1 · answered by Premo Mom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-25 20:56:31 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are absolutley right. I listen to my usband when he looks a magizines he'll say something like man i'd really like to have tool box like that so i manage our money to where he can afford it but he is such a tight *** with money i have to talk him into getiing it. I think if peopl think about what would really make the other person happy and tried to do those things relationships would last. The attention needs to be diverted from sex too. I've been dropping hints that I want a necklace with our chikldre's birthstones in them for two years now and I still haven't gotten it. I don't think it's cause he doesn't care it's cause he doesn't listen.
2006-12-11 05:53:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it sounds great if like you said your both doing this i do not see why any marriage would fail. But there are many marriages that one spouse thinks the other one should do all the work. Maybe then it would not be worth if you always think of what you can do to make your spouse happy. Do you agree?
2006-12-11 06:36:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Feeling half yet a complete person without ur spouse,is the key to a wholeness in marriage.Your spouse is ur catalyst,ur friend,ur mate,yet u can be happy without being with him,and yet feel would have not experienced this wholeness without him.
2006-12-11 05:26:09 · answer #5 · answered by aquarian 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesnt always work that way! Although.. that is the way I live my life.. I do just about everything I do for my husband and children. Its a two way street.. both people have to be willing to do it this way!
2006-12-11 05:22:28 · answer #6 · answered by Kristin B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's definitely a two-way street. But if your spouse travels every single week, then you will kill yourself trying to do this EVERY time he/she comes home. It is better to give than to receive but we all want to be pampered every now and then.
2006-12-11 05:23:30 · answer #7 · answered by MiMi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your is a little confusing, lived what way are you talking about do for him. You need to give a little detail what your going to do for him, okay.
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2006-12-11 05:22:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why didn't you do it before he left on the trip?
2006-12-11 05:21:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋