My boyfriend broke up with me and everything seemed perfect before....and the reason he said he broke up with me was because he said it was too fast..and that he had to know me for awhile and he said he had only known me for a few weeks...do u think there's a chance we might get back together...later..and tell me the honest truth...but he seems like he stil likes me now tho..
thats what i posted on the otha question and now we are back togethr and we have been together for a little over a month..did i do the right thing getting back with him..right now we are both happy..or at least i am..and he keeps telling me he loves me..i dunno..i just need some help
2006-12-11 04:58:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe he just needed some time to clear his head and realize you're the one he wants. Just remember, there's no sense worrying 'what if?' until you actually have a reason to. He seems like he cares and he's saying I love you so just hang in there and see where things go. Just don't stress out about it, I'm sure everything is how it's supposed to be. Good luck!
2006-12-11 05:04:06 · answer #1 · answered by Desiree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I recently went through this, but I was on the other end and I was the one who broke it off. When I first broke it off it was because I wasn't 100% sure I wanted to be with her and didn't feel it would've been fair to her to stay with her. It caught her off guard, although she did admit it seemed like I had been pulling away a little the last few days.
But through the next few days I began missing her sooooo much and did a lot of thinking and realized that it was me that had the problem. The reason I wasn't 100% sure was because I was looking for perfection, which nobody will ever find, obviously.
Once I started looking at things realistically, keeping in mind that a relationship does involve work and getting past the other's faults, I became excited at the chance of working through a relationship with her, together. In a way, it was the working through things part that was the most exciting to think about just because I felt it would provide opportunities to really learn about each other and show care/concern.
We are back together now and I feel great about things. I think the problem with guys is we have a tendency to think "could I be doing better with someone else" - and I can't say for sure if that's what he's thinking.
Unfortunately, I do think it took a break-up to learn all of this, but I think we're both better off for having gone through it. Anyway, that's been my experience...hope that helps in some way.
2006-12-11 13:29:07 · answer #2 · answered by someguy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is your question? You need to quit worring so much. You obviously don't have enough to do. Get a job, or a hobby, something. Get your mind off of the negative things. Have fun, be happy. If he leaves again, hasta la vista, baby! There are more fish in the sea.
2006-12-11 13:04:12 · answer #3 · answered by Becky F 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't sound like you need any help. You have the guy you wanted right? He loves you right? So what's the problem?
Or are you just cellibrating that you're back together?
In that case. Congrats!
2006-12-11 13:03:17 · answer #4 · answered by 35 goodlookinmalefrombalt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U most likely will get back together but next time donh't rush things.
2006-12-11 13:02:27 · answer #5 · answered by Baby girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are as young as I think you are, you should dump him.
Trust me, you will be happier in a bit.
Then start "experimenting" with other girls...you'll be WAY ahead of your time.
2006-12-11 13:02:50 · answer #6 · answered by dynamoo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋