We went out for dinner one night and got along just great. We were both looking for long term relationships. The next night, she invited me to her coworkers' party and then we went to a hockey game and had some drinks. It was a lot of fun and then after we went to my place to watch a movie. She immediately started wanting to fool around. I'm much more "reformed" now than I used to be, so this made me a little uncomfortable (I like to take things slow now), so I wasn't totally in to it but still went a long. We did basically everything except sex. I was doing all kinds of stuff to her, but I couldn't get her off. I'm usually very good and have a little to much experience. She couldn't get me off either though. We had a really long day together, had been drinking a while, and were both pretty exhausted. We finally decided to sleep, and then after a while she got up, got dressed and decided to head back to her place. We haven't spoken since. What's going on here? Should I text her?
2006-12-11 05:03:45 · 10 answers · asked by C 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe shes feels like she couldnt get you off so she moved on...
2006-12-11 05:06:43 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Text her?? No!! pick up the telephone and call her...she probably feels as uncomfortable right now as you do. I'm sure that alcohol and nerves played a major part in your not being able to get eachother off....you are probably right wanting to take this slower...talk to her about it..see if you can "start over"....dating, being friends and getting to know each other...see what happens from there..Good luck!
2006-12-11 05:09:16 · answer #2 · answered by Shelly B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is burnibg you up inside, then call her. But I think maybe you drank a little too much and couldn't get it going physically. Maybe she thought you may not have been attracted to her and that's why she hasn't called but since you are the guy, you should contact her cuz now she might be thinking bad of you.
2006-12-11 05:08:13 · answer #3 · answered by ♦ Phoenix Rising♦ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she's just busy. Or waiting for you to call her. If you like her, you should call her, not text her. Let her know you're still interested, but you've just been busy. I know with my boyfriend could last all night when hes drinking.Whats the worst that could happen?
2006-12-11 05:09:22 · answer #4 · answered by Lady K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She feels akward, she realizes that the only reason she acted that way was because she had a few drinks. She is not interested anymore...sorry, she got scared off, there are other fish in the sea..
2006-12-11 05:07:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how long ago this happened. If you like her, then call her (DO NOT TEXT HER, THAT IS IMMATURE). If it has been more than a month ago, leave it alone.
2006-12-11 05:08:01 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think maybe she feels like she move to fast and is scared to talk to you. So I think you should text her, and see whats up.
2006-12-11 05:07:01 · answer #7 · answered by shenequa t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call her....ask her whats up. if she doesn't answer your calls, then i believe it was just a one-time-only thing.
2006-12-11 05:08:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you got used bro. enjoy it. embrace it.
2006-12-11 05:08:13 · answer #9 · answered by theburlaces 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she probably just was using u.
2006-12-11 05:05:30 · answer #10 · answered by ctgenie99 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋