thanks a lot from my heart...?

Question

i cant help it to cry because the family that i taking care for 4yrs now broken for being self centerd and selfish of my ex husband..he cheated me and chose the girl.i know that im not with him beside because his working abroad and migrate in states.it takes long to get us to fix our papers to live in states,but he cant wait and his such a liar that he told me he fixing our paper but i was shocked that his living with the girl and have kids now.i waited him and i did my best to be a faithful a good mother and a good wife but this is what i got.i loved him so much and his the only man that i loved.it hurt a lot and its like craching my heart when im thingking of all the lies thing he told me.we have two wonderful kids and when im looking at them cant help it to cry because all i wish is to have a happy family.eventhough were not rich atlist a happy one.but he broke my family that im taking care of.im crying right now because i still love him,but im hurting also of what he did to me

Answer 1

Be lucky he's someone else's problem now. Move on and don't worry about him. He'll regret it one day and that should be satisfaction enough. Some men are just sorry SOB's. Now act like you no longer care when you see him or talk to him. That will blow his mind. Make him think you've met someone else.

Answer 2

Ria, You sound like a good person. You need to stop crying for him.He did what he did, and would still do it again if he was with you.Focus on what you want best for you and your kids and pull out all the strength you have inside of you and make it happen without him.
He isnt worth all them tears.What kind of real man would leave his kids behined and not love them above all else or worry how they will survive?He doesnt have heart for those kids but you do.Use that love to pull you through.Have respect for yourself and know you are going to do the best you can for you and your kids and make that love for those kids your power to excel towards what you want for you and them.Love will come again in life for you but right now it isnt the important thing.Get yourself stable and strong and when you least expect it you will find mr right. good luck and I wish you all the best.