I met a guy 2 months ago, we went on a date and then he went to another city for his work. we kept in touch and we called each other every two weeks or so, we weren't in any serious relationship but we both liked each other so he said anytime he's in town he'll call me which he did 3 weeks ago and I couldn't see him so I asked him to come again soon and last weekend he called me I was at a family gathering and I couldnt really talk so I told him I'll call back. but when I called him the next day he rejected my both my calls.i dont understand if he didnt want to see me whay did he called me the night before? what does this mean and why did he rejected my calls? and I havent heard from him since that day which was 3 day ago, help me what should I do? should I call him again?
2006-12-11 05:00:08 · 10 answers · asked by lili_ed 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As a guy, I think maybe he thinks you were blowing him off, so yes, I think you should call one more time, tell him you're really sorry you missed him, then send him a list of dates that you are free so next time, you guys can connect. He should respond to that & if he doesn't, then move on. You'll probably be surprised and hear from him again though. You could also suggest making a plan to get together half way maybe or you go see him sometime. Set a date, put it in your calendars & then commit to it. There is a simple solution to your problem. Good Luck!
2006-12-11 05:09:50 · answer #1 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might have felt that you were avoiding him. How important is this fledgling relationship to you?
The way it sounds, it seems that it was simply accident that every time one of you was available, the other was busy. He probably felt that you were leading him on, asking him to come visit, then never being available (not saying that's what you're doing).
I would say that your best bet is to call him again, but keep everything on a "phone buddy" level until you have reestablished the relationship between yourselves. Then, once things are smooth again, try seeing each other once more.
2006-12-11 05:06:56 · answer #2 · answered by Denise W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, have you asked him what was going on? Because there is obviously some miscommunication. From the looks of it, he probably thought you were pushing HIM off both times that he made the attempts to hook up. Whatever your reasons, did you ever clarify those with him?
2006-12-11 05:08:00 · answer #3 · answered by Pask 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was in town twice and you couldn't make time for him? I'd not call you back either if I were a man. Leave him alone and let him find someone else.
2006-12-11 05:02:04 · answer #4 · answered by Pache 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was in town twice and YOU blew HIM off twice, I wouldn't take your call either under the perception you were blowing him off. The only thing you can do is try once more to convince him it was bad luck, not a blow off.
2006-12-11 05:08:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he thinks you are leading him on or you are just too nice to say no, so he is cutting you off. if u like him then dont give him the chance to hang up. go and see him in person. if u like him youll make the time
2006-12-11 05:05:00 · answer #6 · answered by donald k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you were genuinely busy and couldn't see him, try calling him and tell him when you're available. Good luck.
2006-12-11 05:03:32 · answer #7 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long distance relationships never seem to work,someone always ends up cheating.what makes you think he hasn't got someone wherever he goes?
2006-12-11 05:05:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him go! It sounds like he is playing with you. That kind of guy doesn't deserve you.
2006-12-11 05:02:13 · answer #9 · answered by amarilysusa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, don't call him yet. Wait a month or so.
2006-12-11 05:02:24 · answer #10 · answered by MK6 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋