2006-12-11 04:56:43 · 29 answers · asked by Graham 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No! Why stay in a relationship that's annoying you? Available men can see that you're miserable and you know what they say misery loves company. You need to shed your misery in order to find happiness. You're not going to be in a happy relationship as long as you keep thinking that you have to be where you are just so you won't be alone. Get rid of the bad relationship, put on a smile and walk around the mall. The first guy you see that you think is cute, make eye contact with him with a smile and hold it. Break it and walk away he may approach you. If not then walk up to him and compliment him on something. Girl this is the 20th century go pick you up a man that will keep a smile on your face and your heart.
2006-12-11 05:05:04 · answer #1 · answered by Pisces Princess 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No for want. If your afraid of being alone or have no patients to wait for the right one. Your sorry. Something is wrong with you, Are you the type of women who sleep with married men? Most people like you do. If that's want your doing staying in a frustrating relationship knowing your strong enough to get out, but only staying for the fact of not being alone. Down deep inside yourself you feel empty and not a whole women, It is are nature to have a mate, we were made for that, but it's not are nature to sleep and stray around because your scared to stay alone. Don't you have children? If you do your not alone your just afraid to be alone with your kids. Your the type one relationship over and a other starting for you don't be alone. Little do you understand be alone is the best healer and a relationship with God. not other man. and not someone else man either.
2006-12-11 05:13:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Not me. I've learned to enjoy my own company. Relationships are supposed to build each other up, I don't want to hang out with people who pull me down.
As for safety, I'm pretty independent. When everyone lost water when freezing pipes burst, I was the first one to have water back because I fixed it myself instead of waiting for the weekend when my husband was home.
To stay in an unsatisfactory relationship, is closing yourself off to a good one.
2006-12-11 05:01:40 · answer #3 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh,HELL TO THE NO!!!!! Girl, I could learn to like getting to know me instead of dealing with a man that irritates and frustrates me. I like to be happy and if I'm not receiving that from my relationship with my significant other, then he'd have to bounce. My sanity come first. I don't wait to exhale for no man, you feel me. Eventually that sh** will wear down on you mentally, you know. And you'll just be angry all the time and you don't want that. Plus why waste your time on him when you can find a good man that ready to sample a "TASTE of your HONEY"....:-] and make you happy.
2006-12-11 05:07:13 · answer #4 · answered by Ms.CuteCaDiva 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is just a frustrating stage, then yes, deal with it.
If it has always and will always be frustraing, destructive and negative - taking form your life and life spirit instead of adding to it - then I'd say don't bother working on it.
But if the safety of the relationship is ALL that is keeping you in it, I think you need to re-examine yourself and get out of the relationship.
2006-12-11 04:59:43 · answer #5 · answered by Paula879 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
no, i wouldn't deal with a relationship that was so frustrating just cuz i don't want to be alone. I would if i loved him not for me being alone.
Hell no.
2006-12-11 04:59:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope, at least if you're alone you are free to do your own thing, no hassle, and you got the chance of finding a relationship that isnt frustrating.
2006-12-11 05:01:04 · answer #7 · answered by Rowan1964 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No. If you're unhappy dealing w/the relationship, the only thing to do is end it....whether you "want" to be alone or not shouldn't even be considered.
The thing is....is that eventually you will not be "alone" anymore.
At least being single you are free to play the field.
2006-12-11 04:59:13 · answer #8 · answered by Miz D 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
of course not, there are always more fish in the sea. I'd rather be sane than having to deal with a vain man, even if he was georgeous and rich. if it is frusterating and causes a great deal of stress, defianlty out.
2006-12-11 05:03:46 · answer #9 · answered by bananananana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell No!!!
Because there is someone else out there who you could be so happy with. But because you are so afraid to let go and live life to the fullest, you will NEVER achieve a higher quality of life. No one can make you happy. You have to be happy with you and love yourself first.
2006-12-11 05:00:41 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋