well the reason why iam asking is that theres alote of bad things happening with him right now like his dads in the hospital and hes working 2 jobs to help suport his famile and then on top of things hes holding his feelings in and not talking to anyone at all!! what should i do just leave him or stay and wat for him to come around.
2006-12-11 05:04:16 · 4 answers · asked by lizz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i just got out of something like this 2months ago. i held on for 2months, he said it was work, kids, ex lady, family...etc. he wouldn't talk to me and then out of the blue calls me up like nothing is wrong and no sorry for not calling and such. it takes less than 5min to call someone or even text them to say they are thinking about you and such. my 2 months was way to long and I finally said screw it! it had been 2months since i had actually seen him and in that time 1 month of not talking to him. i broke it off. his actions can mean so many things....but i am goin to take a stab he's not interested anymore so the best way is to ignore you and hope you go away.
break it off with him officially so he cant come back and say you were cheating or never broke up kinda thing...and then move on to better guys that will take that 5min to call and say they are thinking of you and not shut you out.
if you still feel like you hang around for him...make sure he knows that you are there for him and he can talk to you anytime he needs it....but also realize that in a relationship its also about communication and if you don't have that its not much of one to begin with...its not even dating. you have to talk to be able to have that.
2006-12-11 05:14:01 · answer #1 · answered by Get_R_Done_n_Dallas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show him you care, but like he is too busy with his job and all you should tell him that you will be his friend and that he can call you when ever he needs to talk. but as a couple maybe you should step aside and let time tell.
2006-12-11 05:08:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Am going thru the same problem cuz my STUPID computer doesn't wanna download Java, Anywyas I think you better Stay with him and go through all his going through. That would make him understand that there's someone out there that will go through anything with him...
2006-12-11 05:10:59 · answer #3 · answered by ♫\\ Wanna Be Somebody // 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him and just talk.
2006-12-11 05:09:03 · answer #4 · answered by Baby girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋