Family & Relationships - 8 December 2006

My very good friend needed help and i loaned him $140 dollars to pay on his car so he wouldnt lose it...he payed me 60 of it about two weeks ago. That is all he has payed me...since then he has went from one job to another and got his cell phone shut off. I really need him to pay me the rest because now i am really needing the money. But i feel really bad for asking him every week. What should i do?

2006-12-08 11:43:25 · 5 answers · asked by Tinkerbell 2 in Friends

so when guys have crushes on girls, then do they like them for a long time, or do they just move on very quickly? do they have crushes on several girls at a time, or just one at a time?
thank you!~

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2006-12-08 11:43:25 · 3 answers · asked by cooleo as fooleo 1 in Singles & Dating

Just curious as to what wedding songs were played at weddings recently. Our wedding is in June and is an outdoor traditional ceremony and am choosing songs for my friend to sing.

2006-12-08 11:42:55 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I dream about him and think about him instead of doing my SCHOOL work and I 'm so very sad if he is not at school, a also sign my name on scrap paper with his last name!

2006-12-08 11:42:41 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Iv'e known him loger she hasn't said 2 words to him. I sit with him at lunch. he has no clue i like him . should i tell my bff that he dosent feel comfortable around her? What should i do??? I dont want to mess up our friendship with this

2006-12-08 11:42:30 · 6 answers · asked by ? 2 in Friends

My bf cheated on me with my best friend. They had gotten a bit drunk at a party one night while i was out of town and they went together and so they thought since i was gone it would be alright this happened a few months ago and i soon found out once my friend told me she was pregnant but she wouldnt tell me who the dad was soon it spilled out i broke up with him and now he and she are going steady and they plan to raise the child together and get married when the time is right. Should i stay her friend and support her or not? The baby? My ex?

2006-12-08 11:42:26 · 31 answers · asked by madlion 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 20 years old, I have had one boyfriend for like two months, but it was nothing serious at all. I have also had a few guys that I really liked, but they just used me to hook up with. I have been on a lot of dates that the guy would really like me, but none of them I felt deeply attracted to to continue dating. I also don't think that I am that picky. I am also still depressed about the guy that I had sex with for the first time from about half a year ago. It hurts b/c i liked him sooo much and he didnt like me, just used me, I can't get over it either. but anyways,, ALL of my friends have serious boyfriends right now and it makes me sad. Do I have a chance that I will find someone to love and be loved? I think I am very pretty, I guess I just do not have a lot of confidence. What should i do?

2006-12-08 11:42:07 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been having this dream for a whole week now.It starts out with me and my family memebers going on a trip and then there's a funeral in the next lane,and when I turn around all of my family members are in the back of the herse.Its scary,what could this mean?

2006-12-08 11:40:50 · 19 answers · asked by DiamondXxx 6 in Singles & Dating

i need to get a gift or gifts for my boyfriend thats $50, he is extremely hard to shop for and i dont have much to spend. so please give me all of your suggestions. thankyou

2006-12-08 11:40:41 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We have been friends for 3 years. I was never really "popular" more like a class nerd. Anyways, this year I have had more friends than the two I've previously had. Well, I appreciate my ALL my friends and am always there for them when they need me. Anyways, one of the two friends that I've always had, said today that she was noticing that I was getting more popular and that she thought it was embarassing for her, bcuz of the way I talked to people (I told her that it CANT be embarassing..because people wouldnt talk to me if I was weird and plus she isnt my mom to be embarassed of me) well this guy i was talking to (my friend) said that she is jealous and i COMPLETLY AGREE...but I'm scared of her spreading **** about me and tell my new friends that Im not the "greatest" yes, if they are really my friends they wont ditch me...but i still need to make a "rep" with them. So what should I do now??? This girl is ALSO my locker partner!

2006-12-08 11:40:34 · 2 answers · asked by HAPPY <3 2 in Friends

I know this a seriously stupid question but the guy i want to go with to the dance is extremely shy and hardly dances! Any ideas? TY so much if u actually have a good answer, i got 10 pts with your name all over it if you answer best....................

2006-12-08 11:40:34 · 7 answers · asked by LizziFishie 3 in Singles & Dating

mine is scorpio

2006-12-08 11:40:31 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I don't think I can take much more of them this month. Would it kill my marriage and my inlaw relations for me to skip our Christmas with them? I've asked my husband to make the 2 day trip alone. Now he is mad and I feel guilty.

2006-12-08 11:39:56 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have been dating a guy for almost a year now (Dec. 31 will be a yr.) I moved in with him and now I think it is the biggest mistake. I find myself playing mama and having to clean up after him. He is extremly jealous, even when I pay more attention to my puppy than him!!! I tried breaking up with him but he informed me that he might hurt himself. (He tried to cut his wrist when his last g/f broke up w/ him. But he did it wrong. I didn't know this b4 hand.) He has hinted to me that he would try to kill himself if I did. Frankly I'm tired of him and his childish and selfish ways, and I have to admit I am a little scared. If he was to do something to himself I would feel horrible. WHAT DO I DO!!!! HELP PLEASE!!!!!!

2006-12-08 11:39:46 · 21 answers · asked by Redd 1 in Singles & Dating

alright here's the deal.. i pretty much have my parents to thank for not having a life. my younger brother and sister are the same way, except they actually have a lot of friends and i have about 3 (never had a g/f or been friends w/ a girl ever either). my parents are crazily overprotective (even though im 19), and i still dont have a license or anything. on very rare occasions can i have a friend over or visit a friend, and since i can't go anywhere on my own really, i am forced to sit in my room all day and sit by my computer like im doing now. this is all when i am at home, but since im in college this year, i feel the same way. i havent made any friends since ive been there and do nothing but sit in my dorm all day, sit by the computer, eat, and study. i also developed social anxiety from this early on and im not exactly sharp in the looks department either (5'5 and barely over 100 lbs), so that doesnt help much. if someone could help me that would be great. thanks in a

2006-12-08 11:39:33 · 9 answers · asked by surftaco400 1 in Family

the first time i did it with my boyfriend i didnt bleed but it did hurt for a while and i did know what was goinig on but i didnt moan why is that i did love it alot it was the best night but i dont know what to do on the next time i do it with him. please give advice on how to make it better for him n should i give him head because he ate me out please help he loved it also

2006-12-08 11:38:00 · 6 answers · asked by dance4life 1 in Singles & Dating

He was killed 3 years ago today. Im almost 9 months pregnant and wanted 2 get married before the baby is born. we got married today because it was the only day my husband could take off work. only my mom went with us the rest of my family doesnt know i got married yet, I feel kind of bad that is the same day and that my family will be upset

2006-12-08 11:38:00 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

One of the best friends I have is a guy who I work with. He's so similar to me and I have the best times with him, everything we do is such good fun. However for a while, I think he's started to like me (which of course is inevitable in these guy-girl friendships) and since I've started going out with this other guy he's become quiet distant and it's really upsetting me because I miss him a lot. I'd do anything for him and if he preferred it, I'd even break up with the new guy. Should I talk to him? He doesn't know that I know he likes me. I'm not sure what to do, this is quite a sticky situation

2006-12-08 11:37:12 · 2 answers · asked by oh_scheiss 3 in Friends

2006-12-08 11:36:07 · 5 answers · asked by ccalisa518 1 in Weddings

I have never heard of this apart from having sex with a minor. But can a woman be prosecuted, say, if the man claims he was under the influence of alcohol? Has anyone heard of such a claim? Is it likely to happen?
What if the woman is known to the man - say they are work colleagues?

2006-12-08 11:36:07 · 46 answers · asked by Gillian 1 in Singles & Dating

He is just so hot, and a lot of the girls in my school agree with me, but I am so shy. He knows I am there, barely anymore, lately he's been distracted. It isn't a girl. might be the weed his frieds have been smoking.... IDK..... Should I even be worried?

2006-12-08 11:35:18 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If you are interested in the woman-
Do you play games? Linger the chase?
Is there a such thing as men playing hard to get?
If you do, why?

2006-12-08 11:35:09 · 2 answers · asked by dkuddle 3 in Singles & Dating

I was driving around and saw him at one of his girl friends houses...they have been friends for awhile but he told me and his mom he was going to his friends house thats a guy..........well when i saw him i broke up w/ him b/c i was mad he lied about it! well the next day ppl start tellin me they have been having sex and that they have been seen toghether other places too....weve been dating for almost two years.....this happened tuesday and hes been calling me everyday crying and tellin me he loves me and he swears he wasnt cheating on me that he just went there to say hi and chekc on her b/c her n her b/f were having problems and hes best friends w/ her now ex-b/f.......he says hes sorry for just bein there talkin to her and that it wont happen again but i dont know if hes being honest or not......should i get back w/ him or not??

2006-12-08 11:34:51 · 7 answers · asked by ashleymarie_08 1 in Singles & Dating

There's this guy who hugged me once and we used to hang out and stuff and then he found out I liked him and our friendship kinda dropped dead. How do I restore it without being the loser in the end..

2006-12-08 11:34:49 · 2 answers · asked by roxitrin 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay i liked this guy last year and i told him and he told me he kinda like me too. He really didn't act like he did but kept writing notes to me on how all the other girls flirt with him a lot and how annoying it is! And this year hes been trying to get my attention...he passes by me and my friends and looks straight at me, in the hallways he passes by me and his arm rubs against mine, and today he pushed his shoulder into my shoulder then smiled. Why is he doing this?

2006-12-08 11:34:42 · 1 answers · asked by nikki<3 2 in Singles & Dating

well i was with the guy for about a year % 1/2 and lived with him for most of it. i gave him my all. things were great but they ended up truning around. well i found him cheatin on me and i left. for a long time b4 that things wernt good. the control he was trying to pull was working for me. i ended up rethinking about go back to him and was still seeing him a few times a week. at first i thought he was going to change but i was wrong and i started to feel like i couldnt leave again until i met another guy that help me leave him for good but when he left my life i ended back at his place to see all of the guys that i had lived with and he ended up rapeing me that night. but i feel like something is missing out of my life. i thought i was done with him but i guess i was wrong. i find myself thinking of all the things we went through together and i lose it. i just want him out of my life and mind. why do u find myself missing him when he hurt me and put me in so much fear to leave?

2006-12-08 11:34:26 · 8 answers · asked by angel_not46777 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-08 11:34:21 · 12 answers · asked by William S 1 in Singles & Dating

what do you think........ i recently broke up with my bf about two weeks ago, and i like his friend. my ex and i are friends, and i have been friends with his friend; so basically we are one big group of friends. now, i think my friend kevin, like me, and i LIKE HIM ALOT! he is always smiling at me, touching me, helping me train for track and field, and he is an all around good guy. what other signs are there that show that he likes me???? im really confused! please help!

2006-12-08 11:33:27 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We were friends in high school and he graduated couple years ago. But can he get in trouble?

2006-12-08 11:33:08 · 18 answers · asked by amy 1 in Singles & Dating

How does that ignorant person deserved to be treated?

2006-12-08 11:32:32 · 9 answers · asked by Alex 3 in Marriage & Divorce