Iv'e known him loger she hasn't said 2 words to him. I sit with him at lunch. he has no clue i like him . should i tell my bff that he dosent feel comfortable around her? What should i do??? I dont want to mess up our friendship with this
2006-12-08 11:42:30 · 6 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
remember this.. boys come and go and friends last a lifetime. dont put a boy before your friend, boys are complicated and it isnt worth loosing a friend over. Talk to her and tell her how you feel, if she doesnt except it..then she wasnt your true friend after all.
2006-12-08 11:48:57 · answer #1 · answered by :] 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have had this problem before. I will tell you what i did. I liked this boy and so did my best friend i told her that i really liked him and i asked her if she would be mad at me if i said something to him. She in return told me no she wouldnt be mad because its just a guy and she wouldnt let that ruin our friendship. She told me that guys are a dime a dozen. They come and they go but true friends last a life time. So i would ask her if it would be ok if you told him that you liked him.
2006-12-08 19:49:07 · answer #2 · answered by Tinkerbell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heh...when this happens to me...well...my friend and I usually both forget about the guy.
I remember there was this guy in 6th grade...Will was his name. He was blonde and blue eyed...really pretty long hair, kinda short but full of personality. Funny, nice, popular. I thought I was the only one who liked him because he was a bit different, but then on our trip to this nature's classroom type place, we were telling each other who we had crushes on, and literally EVERYONE in my group of tight friends liked him, too. We all just thought it was hilarious and used it as a means of bonding. We talked about how cute he was and stuff XD. After that, no one really...chased after him, though. We all flirted with him, but it didn't matter. I guess we all liked each other more than we liked him.
Just think about who means more to you. Leave it and don't get into a fight about it.
2006-12-08 19:48:25 · answer #3 · answered by :) 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither one of you own him. If he wants to date one or the other, that is his choice. So talk to your friend and agree that you will both accept whatever he chooses to do. After all... he might not ever ask either one of you out! But if he does.... let's hope a best friend can be happy for their friend. Right?
Best Wishes,
Sue
2006-12-08 19:47:15 · answer #4 · answered by newbiegranny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, Either tell him how you feel. Don't telll you bff that he's not comf. around her. If she's sensative it will hurt her feelings!
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2006-12-08 19:51:14 · answer #5 · answered by Lexie S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't make her mad at you, you need to let him decide
2006-12-08 19:45:46 · answer #6 · answered by motor mouth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋