Family & Relationships - 8 December 2006

my partner and me were getting along really well, great sex life etc, after a really rough patch (he's been ill). then he went and trashed it. i am really sensitive about my looks and really hate him looking at porn sites, it makes me feel crap about myself and our relationship. my problem i know but thats how it is. but he went ahead and did it anyhow regardless of my feelings. he only apologised cos i caught him - forgets i know how to use a computer properly. now all is ****, sex life very shaky and i feel awful. he promises he won't do it again but said that the time before and the time befor that. (i know you dn't have to tell me how pathetic that makes me look) Its not like he wasn't getting enough sex- at least6 times a week.

so i don't know what to think. am i just being oversensitive or what? i'm sat here now wondering why i'm still here. we have a 2yr old daughter.
someone help straighten my mind out please!

2006-12-08 11:07:50 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have a small idea of what flirting is. But I'm not 100% possitive about it. I am a Christian, so please tell me if I should avoid doing this. Thanks for your help!^_^

2006-12-08 11:07:25 · 11 answers · asked by Kat 1 in Singles & Dating

My g/f's birthday is coming up and I was thinking about taking her out to eat so I thought McDonalds would be pretty cool because I know she has said before that she liked the McChicken sandwich. I told my buddy this and he said that would be a bad idea. If you are a girl, would you be happy and okay with it? I only make $16.91 an hour so its not like I am rich.

2006-12-08 11:06:34 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-08 11:06:26 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

ok well he holds my hand when the people that like him and his "guy friends" aren't around. but he wont hold my hand in the cafeteria! and he wont put his arm around me in their either. And when we are going to different classes and i say i love u he will onll say loud enough for me to here him mummble it when his friends are around. Why does he do this and should i care?

2006-12-08 11:06:11 · 16 answers · asked by ~_Jillian_~ 1 in Singles & Dating

I love my ex so much but he doesn't love me anymore and I want him back so badly. HELP!!!

2006-12-08 11:05:07 · 26 answers · asked by Innocence_Lost32 2 in Singles & Dating

Its hard to learn worng to rite how will it be easy? How will you know if its a need or want?

2006-12-08 11:04:46 · 2 answers · asked by ayyza h 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

These 2 guys like me I am in tenth grade and a 12th grader likes me and a 10 th grader likes me what should i do

2006-12-08 11:04:17 · 11 answers · asked by singer2be183 1 in Singles & Dating

i like my boyfriend alot, and i don't want to break up with him or anyhitng, but i can't seem to get an orgasm no matter what he does, and i am getting tired of faking it, but i don't want to make him feel bad. i told him different things to try and it doesn't seem to be working, i have never had this problem before! what should i do?

2006-12-08 11:04:14 · 15 answers · asked by karissarissa1 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-08 11:03:27 · 1 answers · asked by eminemkatierapper 1 in Singles & Dating

what should the age limit be between a guy and a girl? i.e: a girl dating an older guy... what should the age limit between their years be?

2006-12-08 11:03:17 · 26 answers · asked by jme_lynn34 2 in Singles & Dating

Be honest, I know not everybody is looking for personality =)

2006-12-08 11:02:40 · 5 answers · asked by Zach S 5 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-08 11:01:55 · 48 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She did not want a big church wedding, since she had been living with him for 4 yrs. I don't want to be uncouth, but I really would like to send some formal announcements to everyone. How can I do this without seeming to ask for gifts?

2006-12-08 11:01:06 · 12 answers · asked by Ms. C 1 in Weddings

Tingeling feeling in my head?
some times i get tingeling feelings in my head when some one is helping me out with homework or something and also just out of the blue i no this sound really creazy but dose any one on why i get that??

2006-12-08 11:01:06 · 2 answers · asked by sweetsuger241 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

what should i get my GF for chrismas, idk what to get for her?

2006-12-08 11:00:18 · 7 answers · asked by da man 3 in Singles & Dating

i really like this girl and i cant really tell if she likes me. We flirt A LOT and we give each other hugs and we talk on the phone occasionally. when the bell rang for lunch a few days ago she called me over to her so she could give me a hug. i know i may seem stupid but i have had a REALLY BAD streak with girls lately and i really like her and i dont want to lose her ya know

2006-12-08 10:59:53 · 15 answers · asked by cruzer 2 in Singles & Dating

which one should i do more ofter old or young?

2006-12-08 10:59:51 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My hubby has just asked if we can renew ours

2006-12-08 10:59:49 · 24 answers · asked by ANGELA R 2 in Weddings

She did not want a big church wedding, since she had been living with him for 4 yrs. I don't want to be uncouth, but I really would like to send some formal announcements to everyone. How can I do this without seeming to ask for gifts?

2006-12-08 10:59:46 · 5 answers · asked by Ms. C 1 in Weddings

me and my boyfriend dont seem to have that spark anymore. i think im gonna end it with him but i dont know if i should. im afraid to. my friend who i kinda sorta maybe like like just got a girl friend. should i totally be outragous and break up with my boyfriend and ask out my friend?

2006-12-08 10:59:28 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my gf is pregnant and she is always in a bad mood. She just finds something that im doing rong and she yells at me? wtf is going on. She is going to give birth Dec. 12

2006-12-08 10:59:19 · 8 answers · asked by white_man752 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been talking to this guy at school. we have decided to be Friends with benefits and its ok becuase we dont see eachother as more than just friends.. But lately he has been wanting for me to send him naughty pics of me with out my shirt.

If i sent one, would that be considered slutty?

2006-12-08 10:59:11 · 5 answers · asked by Nena 2 in Singles & Dating

if u had 2 choose 1... either alcohol or ur partner (who u really love).. who would you choose....specailly when you dont drink much and its not a big deal...but its the principle behind the concept?

2006-12-08 10:58:55 · 47 answers · asked by Anuradha S 1 in Singles & Dating

im not sure if this prank was such a good idea but at the same time i do.I think she had it coming to her because you dont just kiss your friends ex bf it's just wrong so out of spite i did the prank isaid i had brain tumor when i really dont .She got all mad and said she doesnt want to talk to me anymore does anyone think that this was a bad idea

2006-12-08 10:58:31 · 9 answers · asked by ashley_davis957 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-08 10:58:04 · 19 answers · asked by angel 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband doesn't talk to his parents and vice versa, but we live together. It's horrible! Now I don't even get along with them very well. My husband and I want to leave but the problem is that in our culture my inlaws expect us to take care of them. Also they are not so financially capable. In order to be free of finance stress they need to live with us. Reliant on us. I don't care anymore and believe they can survive. Afterall they have the money to buy this house not us. We just keep losing money helping them. My husband doesn't move because he will feel guilty and he feels its an obligation. But to live up to an obligation, does it mean you should be miserable and keep your marriage in such pain from the parents? Where do you draw the line? I feel bad also but I can't do this for the rest of my life, 2 years have been dreadful! Plus they always tell my husband that they suffered for him and took care of him so now its his turn. This is not right, my parents don't think this way!

2006-12-08 10:57:47 · 14 answers · asked by mindy25 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-08 10:57:42 · 20 answers · asked by reynodude 1 in Singles & Dating

my nephew says that he only wanted to see what his hair would look like with curls in it and has asked me to roller set it properly for him.

I do not know what to do and feel that i should tell my sister about it

what would you do?

2006-12-08 10:56:17 · 18 answers · asked by julie s 4 in Family

i get tong tied when i'm near him!!! what should i say???

2006-12-08 10:55:55 · 11 answers · asked by Fusion, gangster man 2 in Singles & Dating