How do I patch things up with my mom, we have been fighting for over 5 yrs now,and i'm tired of being angry.

Answer 1

Kind of hard to answer the question without knowing what you and your mom were fighting about in the first place. Just tell her what you have told everyone on here. You are tired of fighting with her. It has gone on long enough. You don't want to hold onto all of the anger. You want to let go of the animosity and move on.

Answer 2

Just call her and tell her that you've lost 5yrs with her, you don't want to lose anymore time. Tell her your sorry for your part of everything. My Mom was like my best friend, but she passed away a year & a half ago. I miss her so much & it would have been so much harder if we had been not speaking over something. Make up with her, even if you still feel the stress when you talk with her, at least be on speaking terms. Good Luck!!

Answer 3

Casey, call her up or go to her if it's possible, and tell her what you just said, " I'm tired of being angry, Mom, let's work through this" If you try to be honest and really want to patch things up, it'll be fine. If she doesn't want to, at least you tried. Expect some bumps in the road, but hopefully you'll both be okay. Try really hard, you two should at least try to be civil.

Answer 4

What ever the trouble between you is, whether it's your fault or not, go to her personally and apologize, then throw your arms around her and tell her you love her. Do it as soon as possible, because you never know how much time is left for either of you. I speak from experience. My mom and I never got along. She would not even tell me she loved me--and I'm talking about my childhood years into my adulthood. When I would tell her I loved her, she would say "What are you after?" That hurt. But I kept doing it until she finally realized I loved her for no reason other than that she was my mom. And she began telling me she loved me too. After that we still had trouble from time to time, but we enjoyed a close, loving relationship until her death last May.

Answer 5

I would suggest a long, heart to heart talk. Let her know how you feel. See how she responds. If she wants to fix the relationship, then you can start over. Forget the past. Try to remember you love each other. Even if you don't agree on certain things. Don't argue about it. It's not worth it. Mothers and daughters should be close and be there for each other.

Answer 6

Tell her your tired of being angry then.. start over..tell her you love her.it sounds like your just alike so she is hurting as much as you probaly even more.Start off the new year with an Im Sorry and then all you can do is try.But remember, no matter what, she is your Mom and your her baby.

Answer 7

I lost my mother one year ago. You only have one mother. Tell your mother that you love her. Don't live your life being mad all the time. You be the person to take the first step in rebuilding your relationship. Trust in God and be bless. Call your mother.

Answer 8

Call her and meet up with her. It will be better to talk in person and then you should jsut tell her that you miss her and you are sick of fighting with her.

Answer 9

my mom and I were like that for the longest time.. at one point we weren't speaking at all (she blocked my number ;) )

What it took for us was to have a complete knock out drag out scream fest... tell each other exactly what we thought.. had been thinking and get it all out in the open...

by the time it was over I was sorry I was so mean to her.. and she was sorry she was so mean to me...

Now we are cool...

Answer 10

Simply call and say I love you mom and miss you.