i like my boyfriend alot, and i don't want to break up with him or anyhitng, but i can't seem to get an orgasm no matter what he does, and i am getting tired of faking it, but i don't want to make him feel bad. i told him different things to try and it doesn't seem to be working, i have never had this problem before! what should i do?
2006-12-08 11:04:14 · 15 answers · asked by karissarissa1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
stop faking it and never, i once had a problem with that, and it really went in to better method, like musterbating before the first round
2006-12-08 11:19:37 · answer #1 · answered by KGOSIETSILE M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's probably not him. From what you describe it is probably you who has a problem coming to a point of orgasm.
Stress, guilt about having sex outside of marriage, drugs (legal or illegal), alcohol, and many other things can cause a problem with having an orgasm. You might consult a gynecologist to rule out any physical problems as a first step. Then consider everything from what you eat to medications you might be taking.
Hormone imbalances can cause it too. If your testosterone (yes women have it too, just not as much) is too low, you will have a problem.
Best Wishes,
Sue
2006-12-08 11:08:31 · answer #2 · answered by newbiegranny 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I have this same problem with my finance' I' so sick and Tried of FAKING I didn't know what to do!!!So this is what i did I told him trust me no man likes a woman to tell them about their manhood.He was shock!!Because he really thought he was doing something--It wasn't fair to me--I love to experience that loving feeling too. So we try other things like toys,warm lotions and trust me when I tell you it's been great-- Not all the time but it has gotten better--Enjoy!!
2006-12-08 11:14:42 · answer #3 · answered by CAROLYN B 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's ok. Just let him know the truth and he'll understand. I'm pretty sure any adult would understand. it is an accident, and you shouldn't be embarrass about it. Honest is the best solution. you probably really needed to go pee but your dream have lead you to the bathroom and in reality you're still in bed.
2016-05-22 21:33:48 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have fake it then its its not worth it there is no chemistry between both of you or perhaps you could try different things instead of him, who knows what you need and want more than you.
2006-12-08 11:11:33 · answer #5 · answered by lara 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on to a better Lover Lance is looking for an online affair go join him LOL
2006-12-08 11:06:20 · answer #6 · answered by AngelVirgo9206 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
try some more exotic things. work more on your foreplay and research different techniques for him to practice with you. include toys and roleplaying. try going to http://www.sexualpositionsfree.com (clean site no nudes)
2006-12-08 11:16:04 · answer #7 · answered by Flint 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then tell him about what you want or need as every women is different or you take charge of the situation and teach him what you need to satisfy yourself
2006-12-08 11:07:48 · answer #8 · answered by julie s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Intimacy grows over time just like love and if you really loved him it wouldn't matter what happens down under would it.
2006-12-08 11:07:33 · answer #9 · answered by roxitrin 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
stop faking it...take control, tie him to the bed and don't let him leave til you done! even if you have to make camp on his nose with your pelvis...make him get it done!
2006-12-08 11:08:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋