Family & Relationships - 8 December 2006

OKay I have known this amazing guy for at least five years and we have been friends. From the first time I saw him i knew I liked him and I let him know. He was dating this girl for awhile and she would not let him talk to ANYONE, they broke up last year. Well we started to actually hangout again in march of this year and i knew from then on I was in love!! He told me he was joining the military and at first I was okay with him being gone because it was his life, now he is gone and i am are dying. i went to see him in september and we started to officially date, but we had had feeling for eachother for awhile. my question is we have only been together for two going on three months and he wants me to move where he is staioned. I would not leave till next May but in my heart I want to go, But everyone I know is totally against it because they say he is just going to be shipped out leaving me alone! I feel in my heart he is the one I want to be with for the rest of my life! HELP please

2006-12-08 10:44:34 · 14 answers · asked by BeautifulLady 1 in Singles & Dating

I really like a guy in my class. He has sweet blue eyes, and is always making me laugh. I can tell him my biggest secrets, and we never fight. Should I try asking him out? If so, how? Should I ask him to the movies 2morrow night?

2006-12-08 10:44:12 · 3 answers · asked by Emily 1 in Singles & Dating

OKay I have known this amazing guy for at least five years and we have been friends. From the first time I saw him i knew I liked him and I let him know. He was dating this girl for awhile and she would not let him talk to ANYONE, they broke up last year. Well we started to actually hangout again in march of this year and i knew from then on I was in love!! He told me he was joining the military and at first I was okay with him being gone because it was his life, now he is gone and i am are dying. i went to see him in september and we started to officially date, but we had had feeling for eachother for awhile. my question is we have only been together for two going on three months and he wants me to move where he is staioned. I would not leave till next May but in my heart I want to go, But everyone I know is totally against it because they say he is just going to be shipped out leaving you alone! I feel in my heart he is the one I want to be with for the rest of my life! HELP please

2006-12-08 10:44:03 · 6 answers · asked by BeautifulLady 1 in Singles & Dating

my friends in my math class got in trouble cuz they talked to much and now their being send to iss but i dont think its right cuz we werent that loud so what do u think

2006-12-08 10:44:01 · 3 answers · asked by mntn 1 in Friends

2006-12-08 10:43:49 · 17 answers · asked by YabbaJabba 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I guess I should be grateful im still alive and have my family with me .. but let me just say this year hasn't been easy for me at all. We have been dealing with my sister, she has Lyme Disease. We live in Texas have been having to take her to New York City to her Lyme Disease doctor, no help at all. She is the same. My mom had brain surgery because they found a brain tumor in the front of her brain, and she is recovering slowly but surely from it (it's not easy taking care of someone who has had brain surgery) my dad was diagnosed with diabetes .... I started my Junior year in high school which sucks and is hard as hell ... ugh i think im gona fly away to hawaii and sit on the beach by myself for a while i need to get away!

2006-12-08 10:42:48 · 12 answers · asked by justin3067 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am by no means a virgin, let me say that first. I work with this guy and talk tohim every night. I don't know what he wants, but all I'm really looking for is to have sex. I'm not saying it won't lea anywhere else, cause the guy seems like a lot of what I want in a man. Right now though I know I don't need to be in a relationship, I just want a "friends with benefits" or "sex with no strings" kind of thing. Should I tell him? And yes, I fully intend to protect myself.

2006-12-08 10:42:38 · 14 answers · asked by red.cherry2001 1 in Singles & Dating

I don't know what is happening. Me and my ex fought one and a half years ago. it has been since that time that we have spoken and now he sent me an sms where he asked me if we want to meet to talk. I obviously accepted but he haven't send again to meet. I don't know if he was saying the truth or he wanted to fool around with me. I love him and I want to talk to him again but do i have to wait for him? I don't know what I will do. Does he really wanna meet even though if he told me he will send me an sms to meet and he hasn't send yet?

2006-12-08 10:42:01 · 15 answers · asked by Dianne 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-08 10:41:49 · 12 answers · asked by gemsjay 2 in Singles & Dating

How do i become friends with a guy?! if i like him more than a frend!? is frendship the first step?! tell me wat u think generally as well ppl! :) thank u

2006-12-08 10:41:25 · 13 answers · asked by YabbaJabba 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

i like a guy who is a senior and im a freshman in highschool is that outragous? cuase i really like him and i cant help it and what makes it worse is that hes my brothers friend I NEED HELP!

2006-12-08 10:41:22 · 10 answers · asked by i'llalwaslovehim<3 2 in Friends

My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 1/2 years, I recently transferred to a new college and since school started we have been fighting CONSTANTLY. I was willing to work things out and try to make it better but he seems to think time apart will help, WHAT SHOULD I DO?

2006-12-08 10:40:45 · 11 answers · asked by lucky_sally4 1 in Singles & Dating

um well i been goin out wit this girl for like 2 months and like im going o move in a over da summer should we see other pll or ahve a long disantce realtion ship

yo im 16 ight so dont ask bout age

2006-12-08 10:40:07 · 15 answers · asked by Joseph S 2 in Singles & Dating

Well every year I have a problem picking out the right Christmas present for someone. I was wondering how some people do to help them decide because I'm having a lot of trouble this year!

2006-12-08 10:39:54 · 5 answers · asked by sara_shae34 1 in Friends

my friends and i r goin ice scatin this weecend and my bf is goin to be there he says hes never been ice scatin b4 and he will be embarrassed if he messes up. what should i do to hep him ice scate??

2006-12-08 10:39:15 · 5 answers · asked by Tay 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-08 10:39:01 · 7 answers · asked by angel 1 in Singles & Dating

girls.. if you 'liked some guy' and you looked through 'images' on his phone/pc (with permission though) and found images of some random girl on it how would you react to that if he was there at the time with you?

keep in mind your only friends but your trying to get closer to the guy vice versa, and you know hes single. and this being like a girl he knows from somewhere like myspace or msn or something, not someone famous or an actor, just someone the same age etc but hes only spoken to her on like msn or myspace and got her picture. Just he forgot to delete the pics.

would you be.. jealous? annoyed/angry? curious? content with it? testing waters? what kind of response would you give?

im not intending to be an evil guy asking silly evil questions but i had this once awhile ago n just wanted to know how it would be taken, it was all an accident i swear!

Btw she went "whos that?" with a disgusted look. i was like "oh sh*te" when she saw it. i deleted it as soon as i could though.

2006-12-08 10:36:38 · 23 answers · asked by CoolD 3 in Singles & Dating

he knows i like him its obvious pluss i have told him. him and i talk alot, he comes over sometimes, and we flirt like crazy. he went on vacation and called me alot. when he came over we fooled around, but i felt like a ***** for what i was doing so i stopped that. but no matter what i do i can't seem to get him out of my head, i really like him and i want to be with him, he mentioined that he was going to break up with his girlfriend but i don't know... and the worst part is i trust him completly, which is wierd b/c 1 i don't ever trust people, and 2. he really isn't trust worthy. but for some reason i can tell him anything. we have conversations hours on end and i feel so comfortable with him. i don't know what to do, and please don't say just get over him, because i have tried, and its not working

2006-12-08 10:35:47 · 11 answers · asked by ohmeggosh 2 in Singles & Dating

I recently found out he was e-mailing old girlfiends. He said he stopped. I check his email every now and then and its clear but how do I know he didnt create a new e-mail account? I feel really conflicted. I dont know how he would react if he caught the keylogger. So how effective are they at being invisible?

2006-12-08 10:34:58 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-08 10:33:54 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-08 10:33:15 · 3 answers · asked by A-Rod 2 in Singles & Dating

Think naughty......

2006-12-08 10:33:08 · 11 answers · asked by Robert San 3 in Singles & Dating

ok theres this kid we flirt all of the time and were really really good friends. i have the biggest crush on him ever and i want him to know but i don't want to seem like i'm all over him what should i do?

2006-12-08 10:33:03 · 5 answers · asked by HoTtIe_WiTh_a_BoDy 2 in Singles & Dating

My best friend recently moved overseas with her boyfriend. All was going well until her boyfriend's brother came over for a visit. He has been living with them for 3 months, won't get a job, contributes nothing to the household, and doesn't pay for a thing. They are stuggling financially because of it and both of them are fed up with the guy free loading off them. The family won't have him back because they know what he is like. What advice do you have for this situation?

2006-12-08 10:32:46 · 9 answers · asked by Ally 3 in Family

Hi everyone?
today hasn't been the best of days right so far i've got up late failed to make any valuable additions to an essay i feel is shite, been ill all day with headaches, almost got into a fight with some gobshite in a landrover and to cap all that off i've just lost a library book due in today when i all ready have a ten pound fine.

in short i feel like ****.
add to this my all ready bad mood about feeling pretty much alone in the world relationship wise not that i'm incredibly bothered about sex or anything just right now i feel like i could do with some sympathy from my other half out there for those of you who believ in soul mates anyway my question is this....anything i can do to feel better?

2006-12-08 10:32:32 · 5 answers · asked by michaelcarterv2 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok. There is this boy from my school and we use to text all the time and he would alwayz call me and stuff. We would alwayz be like "I love you" to each other and her would be the one to start it. Well the first time he called me, he would be like so who do u like? and i would say "i don't know" and we would go on for hours bout that. but after a while he asked this other gurl out and i started getting really mad. But i had secretly liked him. But then my friend started to like him and i would be like "No. I dont like him" just so i wont hurt her feelings. so then today in science class they kept on passing notes to each other. and everybody is trying to get her and him to go out now. So i am really mad now cuz i liked him first and now their doing all this junk. somebody help me please.......

2006-12-08 10:31:43 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband said that things were not going the way he thought they should... And he needs to be selfish right now,
He moved out and is staying with a freind still pays the bills at home and still claims to love me, he is very brutaly honest so I know there is no other woman, he says he just cannot be with us(me and his daughter) right now and this may end up in divorce...I am so crushed what should i do?.
everyone tells me hes going thru something and he'll be home when he gets his head right am I foolish for waiting...I took my vows seriously and am deeply in love, I am so hurt and confused..what would make a man do this?

2006-12-08 10:31:36 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok i like this girl She flirts with me i flirt with her and she says hi to me in the hall way. but when we talk i freez up and i can't think of anything.. Girl help and guy help plz

2006-12-08 10:31:25 · 23 answers · asked by Calvin K. 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-08 10:31:21 · 9 answers · asked by Jacob F 1 in Friends

so..i know this mite sound dum but...ive liked this guy for 3 months and im so scared he will reject me. should i go for it? please give me an honest answer!!

2006-12-08 10:30:18 · 20 answers · asked by mouse4life100 1 in Singles & Dating