so..i know this mite sound dum but...ive liked this guy for 3 months and im so scared he will reject me. should i go for it? please give me an honest answer!!
2006-12-08 10:30:18 · 20 answers · asked by mouse4life100 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go ahead and ask him or whatever, but don't be all stalker, psycho, ready to cry about it. Confidence is the key. If he says no, then move on to the next. There are billions of people on this planet and he is only one of them. Find someone who wants to be with you. KEY: don't smother!!!
2006-12-08 10:33:59 · answer #1 · answered by slap_shot69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not dumb at all!!! You may want to wait a bit longer and look for body language to make sure, that's what I did and everything is fine now. Is he someone you see at school, work, or something like that where you will have contact with him for a while? I hope this helps, just take a deep breath and wait a little longer, it may save you and him some hurt. My boyfriend and I kinda knew we loved each other without saying "I love you". We just we recently got up enough guts to say "I love you" and everything turned out perfectly.
2006-12-08 18:39:02 · answer #2 · answered by Molly P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Suggest a drink. No harm in an after work drink or after school coffee.
If he says no..ah well.
But, you will never know one way or the other if you don't try.
This really, is a recent phenomena, the girls asking the blokes.
Men have struggled with the possibility of rejection in this way, millions of times.
If you don't ask.....
2006-12-08 18:36:00 · answer #3 · answered by Moorglademover 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem ive liked this girl for 3 months and i dont want to ask her out because it might ruin our friendship if she says no. But i would go for it if i were u i mean what do you have to lose?! right
Good luck ;)
2006-12-08 18:33:51 · answer #4 · answered by Calvin K. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be a mouse. Be brave. You can't live your life always afraid to take chances. How are you going to fall in love if you're afaid all the time. 3 months is long enough. Good Luck.
2006-12-08 18:33:22 · answer #5 · answered by mamabear 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask him now dont be quiet about it and regret it for the rest of your life for not asking him
if he rejects u atleast yull knowhe aint the 1 for u and u wont have to think things likw Would He Have Said Yes Would He Have Said Yes
2006-12-08 18:39:59 · answer #6 · answered by Army__Strong 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES..rejection is a part of life....you're gonna get rejected from time to time whoever you are...so just do it and have no regrets...if he rejects you at least you know you tried then you can get over it.
2006-12-08 18:36:31 · answer #7 · answered by zooey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rejection is part of life, get use to it. You'll never know if he likes you unless you make a move.
2006-12-08 18:32:54 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go 4 it gurl!! u only live once and it u dont ask him out ur gonna spend the rest of ur life wondering what could have been, i know because i like this guy last year and i kept putting off asking him out then one day he went out with my best friend!!! well w/e got 4 it!!!
And dont do what i did!!!
2006-12-08 18:36:19 · answer #9 · answered by chica101 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will never know unless you go for it rejection is part of life. if he rejects you just move on....he is not the only guy out there
2006-12-08 18:33:25 · answer #10 · answered by lavalleealbert 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋