girls.. if you 'liked some guy' and you looked through 'images' on his phone/pc (with permission though) and found images of some random girl on it how would you react to that if he was there at the time with you?
keep in mind your only friends but your trying to get closer to the guy vice versa, and you know hes single. and this being like a girl he knows from somewhere like myspace or msn or something, not someone famous or an actor, just someone the same age etc but hes only spoken to her on like msn or myspace and got her picture. Just he forgot to delete the pics.
would you be.. jealous? annoyed/angry? curious? content with it? testing waters? what kind of response would you give?
im not intending to be an evil guy asking silly evil questions but i had this once awhile ago n just wanted to know how it would be taken, it was all an accident i swear!
Btw she went "whos that?" with a disgusted look. i was like "oh sh*te" when she saw it. i deleted it as soon as i could though.
2006-12-08 10:36:38 · 23 answers · asked by CoolD 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
guess i'll explain it abit better, i didnt say "oh sh*te" out loud it was just kinda something i thought to myself once i got home as i realised it may have thrown her off. i didnt think she would mind it. i deleted the image when i got home. it was an old image which i didnt look at anyway.
well i like her still i just guess i make silly mistakes alot without noticing and figure it out eventually on my own why shes behaving a certain way.
when she asked "whos that" i just said its some girl off the internet, off myspace, i dont really know her or speak to her but shes goes to a nearby school. thats all i said really. only parts i didnt mention were.. she has a bf and i dont like this girl anyway which may have helped.
shes not upset but i think she was abit jealous because after that day i tried to speak to her but she didnt give me the chance and walked off.
but we've been ok recently.
well ive acted interested in her and no one else so im sure she knows im hers and all hers :)
2006-12-08 11:05:34 · update #1
it werent a dirty pic either lol, just a normal pic of a girl. Just one she would send over msn/phone or something.
2006-12-08 11:10:35 · update #2
think i'd be more bothered about your response to the question than what was on your computer!!!
the disgusted look is a positive thing if you want to get together anyway and i'm sure it's nothing that can't be sorted
xxx
2006-12-08 10:42:06 · answer #1 · answered by aria 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you don't have a relationship, she doesn't have grounds to be upset. If she gets upset, that is a good sign she isn't relationship material.
Becoming a jealous and possessive nut is NO way to get a guy. Dude, this is trouble brewing. You're already deleting pictures when she has NO grounds for being upset? Some time down the road you will be in the shower and your doo-dads will be missing. Look for them in her purse.
2006-12-08 18:43:45 · answer #2 · answered by lmcbuilder 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be content with it because were not together yet and only friends... Any woman that would be upset with this with you is possessive... Now being together well that's a little different but the key word here is ''friends''.. I would check her out and say if I thought she was hot or not... some woman are jealous control freaks... stay away from woman like this because that will only get worse once you start dating these ones...
2006-12-08 19:30:26 · answer #3 · answered by sexton 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless this girl is dressed promiscuously or the picture showed you kissing her, I don't think it should be an issue.
For this girl who is interested, but not a girlfriend yet, it was probably a look of jealousy/annoyance. We females tend to get very jealous when others try to encroach on our "territory."
Calmly explain to her who it is, why she is on your phone, and what the extent of your relationship is. Sometimes just having all the info can make a girl feel more secure.
2006-12-08 18:40:54 · answer #4 · answered by wnk 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't know about the other girls but I try to keep an open mind about it. I don't usually go overboard when I see a girls picture as long as I can be friends with whoever I want and the same for him but if the girl reacted negatively about it then she may have wanted to take things further with you or already considered you to be hers - therefore no girls pics except hers.
2006-12-08 18:44:42 · answer #5 · answered by anna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol....Even if the girl is just your friend, and she has a thing for you then yes she may get jealous.
If you were crushing on a girl, hanging out alot and doing all this fun stuff then she started talking about a guy then you may not be to happy about it.
Friends are just a touchy thing.
ALSO if you said oh sh*t and deleted it sounds like you like her or you are leading her on, even if you are not trying to
2006-12-08 18:43:45 · answer #6 · answered by me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm fairly cool with something like that. Though that said, I see looking through my boyfriends' files/phone as a complete invasion of privacy so I just wouldn't do it. I'm comfortable enough in my relationship to not be jealous/worried if I did find them
2006-12-08 18:40:14 · answer #7 · answered by Natalie B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I am just friends with the guy and I got a crush on him and saw a picture on his phone I wouldn't care since we are not a couple LOL
2006-12-08 18:39:02 · answer #8 · answered by AngelVirgo9206 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well..if they weren;t like dirty pics or nething then it should be fine...u just wanted to put a name to a face more like it...i do the same thing...she may have been a little jealous, and she has a rite to be jealous in a small degree...just make sure if it happens again u explain exactly y they're on ur phone, or just delete them.
2006-12-08 18:49:42 · answer #9 · answered by onetwothree 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I was a friend I'd be curious and possibly give the guy a hard time in a good natured way. If I was interested in him, I'd be curious, but probably wouldn't tease. Are/were you interested in her? Sounds like it threw you off.
2006-12-08 18:43:22 · answer #10 · answered by C 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋