My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 1/2 years, I recently transferred to a new college and since school started we have been fighting CONSTANTLY. I was willing to work things out and try to make it better but he seems to think time apart will help, WHAT SHOULD I DO?
2006-12-08 10:40:45 · 11 answers · asked by lucky_sally4 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hello
I wish that i would of asked myself that same question before me and my man broke up....
But hopefully my answer will help you....
I think that anything thing worth having in life is worth waiting for ... Thus if he is asking you for time apart i would really say that it would poly do more good than harm...
When you are with someone for as long as you have been the you kind of loose how important that person is to you and your life....
I not trying to pretend like i know you or your relationship every relationship is different.
If he is worth having then you can give him Little space.
Best of luck
2006-12-08 10:48:39 · answer #1 · answered by heather_honey_2002hs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a couple of options.
1. GIve up school and move back. This I would NOT recommend, unless there is a comparable college/university in the area where he lives. Even then, I know what a pain transferring is, so I wouldn't recommend it.
2. Get him to move where you are. Again, this may not be realistic.
3. Give up the boyfriend. Admit that you have moved in two separate directions, grown apart, and can no longer handle being around each other without arguing. This may be a good option.
4. Give him is time apart, back off a bit, and possibly even allow for each other to "see other people." Absence can make the heart grow fonder, after all.
Like I said, some of these may not be possible or practical for you, but right now you don't really have very many options, which I think you recognize. Consider this an opportunity to either grow together or finally split paths and do your own thing. Good luck!
2006-12-08 10:46:32 · answer #2 · answered by wnk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-08 02:59:38 · answer #3 · answered by Zachary 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To begin with you should not beg. The only solution that your boyfriend leaves for you to take, is for you to transfer back to your previous college to please him, do you think that this is reasonable and fair? Your future at this stage is your priority, if he has any intelligence and really loves you, he will work with you and still be your boyfriend until you complete your studies. Don't waste your time with him, concentrate on your future and I am sure that there's a man out there that will love and appreciate you. Good luck!
2006-12-08 10:48:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing. He wants time apart, you mentioned that you have been fighting.
You might get back together eventually, but he has made his wishes known. Do you really want to have to force someone into being with you after knowing that kind of info?
2006-12-08 10:43:42 · answer #5 · answered by shaclare 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants his space let him have it after all the heart grows founder when its absence and if he leaves then he is a loser for not communicating with you and working things out with you
2006-12-08 10:43:01 · answer #6 · answered by AngelVirgo9206 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u been fightin bc he is been seein other girls. no really not to be mean but he is thinkin bout it or has been doin it. cut him loose n take some time off to see what else is out there. ppl who fight all the time dont need each other.
2006-12-08 10:44:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just take some time to urself. can't force anything. and maybe during that time you should figure out what's really best for you. dont get back with him because your attached. new college = new boys!
2006-12-08 10:43:43 · answer #8 · answered by zooey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for some reason boys respond more when you ignore them so try that and if that doesnt work tell him you want him back
2006-12-08 10:43:46 · answer #9 · answered by just anotha chick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try talking 2 him... actually i have no idea
2006-12-08 10:45:05 · answer #10 · answered by chica101 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋