I know this a seriously stupid question but the guy i want to go with to the dance is extremely shy and hardly dances! Any ideas? TY so much if u actually have a good answer, i got 10 pts with your name all over it if you answer best....................
2006-12-08 11:40:34 · 7 answers · asked by LizziFishie 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i don t answer for the PTS babe
2006-12-08 11:44:43 · answer #1 · answered by legend_22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'm a very shy guy, so I know how he feels. Try requesting a slow song at the dance, then ask him to dance. Since most shy guys don't really have too much experience with dancing, a slow dance will make him feel more comfortable. It's hard to screw up dancing to a slow song. That would get a shy guy like me to get out on the dance floor. Hope this helps. Best of luck to you!
2006-12-09 23:38:34 · answer #2 · answered by out_of_exile 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, a shy guy is really hard to get him to dance but not impossible, as far as u r ging together, you have to be soft and smily all the time, keep holding his hand, try not to be crazy about dancing and don't press, you're gonna get out of his mind.
Step by step and slowly, sway on your seat with nice smile and a couple of glances, don't jump that fast if some friend ask you to dance. From your moves, he should understand that you like to dance him and nobody else, you're coming with him to have a good time and if he won't do a little concession to please you, I really wouldn't understand this.
2006-12-08 19:55:27 · answer #3 · answered by Deebs 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps hang out with him and show him some simple moves he can learn easily. Also when you do see him dance compliment him on how he dances so that he keeps on going. A compliment can go a long way to bringing up a guy's confidence. Hope that helps you get that groove on with your guy.
2006-12-08 19:44:25 · answer #4 · answered by Die S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him not to worry, take control and joke around enough for him to losen up, most guys are shy cuz they dont want to seem like idiots on the dance floor, but just get to know him better and tell him his doing good, while dancing.. youll get him dancing in to time
2006-12-08 19:53:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really can't solve this problem. Tell him to lose his inhibitions Un-shy him somehow.
2006-12-08 19:47:08 · answer #6 · answered by --strangel-- 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By knowing his interest in a girl....letting him feel his so handsome to be so shy....
2006-12-08 19:43:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋