Family & Relationships - 8 December 2006

I'm kind of tomboyish.This boy at my school likes this girl who's in my band.he asked me to give her a note, so I called her name, and all of the popular posse came up with her.I asked to speak alone with her.I told her it was from Logan(the boy) and so she took it.It was asking to go out on a date.I knew she would say no, because she likes someone else.She ripped the note up into teeny tiny pieces.I was shocked.She went back to her clique.The whole clique was asking what I said to her.
When she was so stubborn and wouldn't say, they came up to me
They asked me.They took my backpack, which contained my PDA and notebook, and iPod.I couldn't risk them breaking it, so I spilled the beans.I promised Logan I wouldn't tell but the pop. group wouldn't give it back so I had to tell.Is what I did wrong?Whatdo Ido know?He trusted me and know the whole school knows.Even his football coach All thanks to the popular girls.What do i do?Was what I did wrong?All this shame is falling on me.

2006-12-08 12:06:09 · 3 answers · asked by Aliza 2 in Friends

3 months ago I told my girlfriend I wanted some time apart because things were moving fast, and we were getting serious. She was very upset, but I insisted and I didnt see her for a month. When I realized how much I loved her I asked her to take me back. At first she was still angry at me, but she finaly took me back.We were happy for the past two months, but last week I asked if she had dated anyone while we were apart - I did not. I found out she not only did date but she even slept with someone she knows from her gym and someone from her work (at different times), she she had regular sex with both, until they both broke it off her. she was hurt by them using and dumping her as well as me rejecting her. Im jealous, but I know i hurt her too. we have discussed the details, though it is hard. this way i let her know it is ok to talk about how she was hurt,but also about how she enjoyed the sex, which she tells me she did - and she has told me new things i can try in bed with her!

2006-12-08 12:06:02 · 6 answers · asked by downtokissit 1 in Weddings

ok so i use to be really popular but now everything has just stoped. and i really need a best friends and i dont know what happened. any tips (besides the usual be yourself)

2006-12-08 12:05:51 · 18 answers · asked by jackierosenfeld 2 in Friends

3 months ago I told my girlfriend I wanted some time apart because things were moving fast, and we were getting serious. She was very upset, but I insisted and I didnt see her for a month. When I realized how much I loved her I asked her to take me back. At first she was still angry at me, but she finaly took me back.We were happy for the past two months, but last week I asked if she had dated anyone while we were apart - I did not. I found out she not only did date but she even slept with someone she knows from her gym and someone from her work (at different times), she she had regular sex with both, until they both broke it off her. she was hurt by them using and dumping her as well as me rejecting her. Im jealous, but I know i hurt her too. we have discussed the details, though it is hard. this way i let her know it is ok to talk about how she was hurt,but also about how she enjoyed the sex, which she tells me she did - and she has told me new things i can try in bed with her!

2006-12-08 12:05:19 · 4 answers · asked by downtokissit 1 in Singles & Dating

my friend wont stop eating sugary sweets, i tell her look, jessica, stop! but she says that she loooooves eating shes nice, down 2 earth, smart, BUT WONT STOP EATING! there has 2 be 1 way 4 her 2 STOP.plzhelp me!

2006-12-08 12:04:45 · 5 answers · asked by elly 1 in Friends

2006-12-08 12:04:13 · 5 answers · asked by CEZARA B 1 in Singles & Dating

I first fell in love with him five years ago, but we fell out of contact until I contaced him about 5 weeks ago and we've been seeing each other since then. We have been having sex, again because my feelings for him are so strong and I assumed he felt the same way.

Well recently when I brought up the issue of our "relationship" he said he likes me but he is not sure we are compatible outside the bedroom. What should I do? He treats me well, he breaks plans with his friends to be with me, we spend time together, he is going to drive 1 1/2 hours to see me. Should I stay with it and see if maybe it just takes him a little longer to fall in love? Thanks!!

2006-12-08 12:03:26 · 15 answers · asked by Sweetgirl 2 in Singles & Dating

I know i shouldn't rush into ne thing but i want a bf really bad...and i don't know why...never had one b4...but i like like two main guys rite now...one i know would be either freaked out if he knew or wouldn't care... and the other guy i def think and prob. know he wouldn't go out with mee..not the most popular girl in school..ne advice...thanx!

2006-12-08 12:03:09 · 7 answers · asked by ~Bubblii~ 2 in Singles & Dating

All my siblings go to this drama group but I dont.
Theres a chick I like who goes there.
I guess my siblings know I like her and two of them suggested I ask her out!!!
What should I do???

2006-12-08 12:02:58 · 1 answers · asked by Guy Who Brushes His Teeth* 6 in Singles & Dating

I need all sorts of gift ideas open to any and all suggestions.

2006-12-08 12:02:39 · 12 answers · asked by JACOB R 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Did they find out, was it worth it? Was the other person better than the one you were with? Would you ever admit that?

2006-12-08 12:02:21 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

k i know this girl that i like and we are best friends...but the story goes like this....we started out as Bf/Gf then we broke up then we were crazy about each other now we arnt now she's says she doesnt like like me but shes showing me other wise...can anyone explain this to me

2006-12-08 12:02:18 · 9 answers · asked by Captain Morgan 1 in Singles & Dating

I like this guy at school but he's 2 grades ahead of me. He's exactly my type and he's really hot :) please HELP ME!!!!!!

2006-12-08 12:02:16 · 17 answers · asked by irockthebandroom55 2 in Singles & Dating

for like an email dont put like to where (yahoo) but like downndirty@.... i need one that is a lil naughty but no that naughty...

2006-12-08 12:01:18 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Should i ever tell my family that I am bi my mom knows but everyone else doesn't...I am female

2006-12-08 12:00:09 · 8 answers · asked by Bri 2 in Family

My husband decided he wanted a divorce 6 weeks ago, I am currently in college full-time, I have 3 qtrs to go...he said at first he would pay ALL my bills until I graduated, two weeks later he offered $500 a month until I graduated, three weeks later he says he can only pay $470 for six months, now he says he can only pay $470 for 4 months...would you take his butt to court or give in? Thing is I can't afford to take him to court, but I feel I have no choice at this point...

2006-12-08 11:59:46 · 21 answers · asked by Lisa Bee 3 in Marriage & Divorce

There is this really funny and cute guy i like. I think he likes me too because whenever we see each other we are constantly flirting and we just have a good time. Well like 2 weeks ago he told me that he liked one of my good friends and said he was thinking about asking her on a date. I don't know if he knows i like him, but since he is trying to see if i'll help him get a date i don't think he knows. So, i told him that i *thought* she really liked him and i'm sure she would go on a date with him. Well, i asked my girlfriend and she said she doesn't really like him like that. I just don't know what to do! Do i make a move on this guy and let him know i like him, or just wait it out and see what happens? Give me your opinions! Thanks in advance.

2006-12-08 11:59:02 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

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2006-12-08 11:58:44 · 6 answers · asked by rage997 3 in Singles & Dating

B/c we both feel the same way but somethime I just second ? myself sometimes b/c it's hard to put your heart out as a woman.

2006-12-08 11:58:41 · 13 answers · asked by Reese T 1 in Singles & Dating

This guy I've know for a long time. He works in my building and he sometimes has to bring over work to my area. He is a really nice guy most of the time. But sometimes he's so unbelievably moody. But his sweetness outweighs his moodiness. Yes I have feelings for him. The thing is sometimes I feel he knows this. And he'll look at me intensly but I don't know if it's just because he likes the idea that someone likes him. Because the last time he was really sweet to me because I was upset about something he patted me on the back and looked into my eyes. And then when my friend and I were talking he's also friends with her he tried to get involved in the conversation and really looked at me a lot. But then today I know he was in a bad mood anyway but he totally ignored me. I did act really shy around him the day before when he got in our conversation. What do I do with someone like this? I don't know if he was just in a bad mood or he doesn't want me to think he likes me.

2006-12-08 11:58:10 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok me and my ex have been broken up for atleast 6 months now becuz i caught him cheating on me and he calls me the other day out of the blue and asks about me and how i've been doing and his cousin tells me that he loves me very much and he's asking her about me everyday. is he tryin to get back with me or what? what should i do let it go or try and work things out? help!!!

2006-12-08 11:58:05 · 5 answers · asked by LeAnn 1 in Singles & Dating

I was never really "popular" more like a class nerd. Anyways, this year I have had more friends than the two I've previously had. Well, I appreciate my ALL my friends and am always there for them when they need me. Anyways, one of the two friends that I've always had, said today that she was noticing that I was getting more popular and that she thought it was embarassing for her, bcuz of the way I talked to people (I told her that it CANT be embarassing..because people wouldnt talk to me if I was weird and plus she isnt my mom to be embarassed of me) well this guy i was talking to (my friend) said that she is jealous and i COMPLETLY AGREE...but I'm scared of her spreading **** about me and tell my new friends that Im not the "greatest" yes, if they are really my friends they wont ditch me...but i still need to make a "rep" with them. So what should I do now??? This girl is ALSO my locker partner!

2006-12-08 11:57:34 · 8 answers · asked by HAPPY <3 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-08 11:57:20 · 14 answers · asked by dieseldick3408 2 in Marriage & Divorce

How can you tell if someone likes you?
How can you tell if you like someone?
How can you get answers from uncooperating people?

2006-12-08 11:56:03 · 5 answers · asked by RedHot 1 in Singles & Dating

I am seeing my ex who I am still in love with. ANy ideas on how to act?

2006-12-08 11:55:47 · 8 answers · asked by Jenny S 1 in Singles & Dating

Is is too uncool for a single man to be with a married woman, secretly???

2006-12-08 11:55:47 · 10 answers · asked by funkychick 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

If you're taking the kids/nephews/nieces/etc. to the beach, what do you do to get sand out of their trunks and booty's after?

I've seen moms actually take their kid by the shower pull from behind their trunks and just clean right their with their hands.

How do others handle this?

2006-12-08 11:54:54 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Situation: 19 yr old is living with a family. 19 yr old and 50 yr old male have a problem with eachother. 40 yr old woman does not like it. 19 yr old cusses with loud and impulsive outbursts (he does not have terrets syndrome). 50 yr old (injured back) lies down because of back all the time. Seems to nineteen yr old that 50 yr old's back problem is all in the head. Seems to 50 yr old that 19 yr old is trying to annoy 50 yr old male. What is going on here?

2006-12-08 11:54:49 · 14 answers · asked by Michael V 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm really good friends with this guy and I admit, I have little crush on him. We talk a lot and hang out and have a lot of fun together. We always make each other laugh. Monday morning, we were having a really nice conversation and I felt really good for the rest of the day. Then, he started ignoring me and didn't say anything to me until Wednesday afternoon. Now he's ignoring me AGAIN! I dont know what I did to make him ignore me. My friends think he's realizing that the relationship he's in is crap and he's starting to like me, but he's afraid to give up what he has since he doesn't know I like him, but I don't know...

What do you think?

2006-12-08 11:54:47 · 8 answers · asked by happy311 3 in Singles & Dating

I really would like to go out with this guy that i know really well and i am not afraid to ask him out but there is one thing he is 2 years younger than me and i really want to go out with him but i dont want to go out with someone 2 years younger than me what should I do? HELP!!!!

2006-12-08 11:54:27 · 5 answers · asked by GoGirl 1 in Singles & Dating