This guy I've know for a long time. He works in my building and he sometimes has to bring over work to my area. He is a really nice guy most of the time. But sometimes he's so unbelievably moody. But his sweetness outweighs his moodiness. Yes I have feelings for him. The thing is sometimes I feel he knows this. And he'll look at me intensly but I don't know if it's just because he likes the idea that someone likes him. Because the last time he was really sweet to me because I was upset about something he patted me on the back and looked into my eyes. And then when my friend and I were talking he's also friends with her he tried to get involved in the conversation and really looked at me a lot. But then today I know he was in a bad mood anyway but he totally ignored me. I did act really shy around him the day before when he got in our conversation. What do I do with someone like this? I don't know if he was just in a bad mood or he doesn't want me to think he likes me.
2006-12-08 11:58:10 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Is it that he just wants his cake and eat it to sort of thing. Like he doesn't like me but likes the idea that I like him. So keep me on a string sort of thing. It's like he's trying to be a semi friend, but sometimes the way he looks at me I feel something. But then when I act shy and nervous it's like he catches on for sure I like him and then he avoids me. This hurts what do I do?
2006-12-08 12:00:29 · update #1
You call him moody, but how much do you know about him? Maybe he has personal problems, that have nothing to do with you. On the other hand, It doesn't sound like you were very nice when he tried talking to you and your friend. Is that how you repay his kindness when you were upset? I think you are wrong. Treat people how you would like to be treated.
2006-12-08 12:06:16 · answer #1 · answered by mamabear 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can analyze till h--- freezes over and wonder if you are causing his moodiness and wonder what you can do to get him to be interested in you. But at the end of every day, the answer is that nobody but him and his mind know why he's moody. It's all him and more than likely what you see (or experience) is what you get. You aren't powerful enough to make him moody or put him in a good mood. If you like inconsistency, now I'm here and now I'm gone, and moodiness for now apparent reason, pursue and nab him. I wouldn't touch him with a ten foot pole if I were you.
2006-12-08 20:10:35 · answer #2 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds too moody.......if he acts that way, already, just think how he would act if you were dating.
2006-12-08 20:01:48 · answer #3 · answered by NAN G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋