I like this guy at school but he's 2 grades ahead of me. He's exactly my type and he's really hot :) please HELP ME!!!!!!
2006-12-08 12:02:16 · 17 answers · asked by irockthebandroom55 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't really know him that well
but i like him
2006-12-08 12:08:36 · update #1
No, that's fine. As long as he isn't pressuring you into doing anything you don't want to do, or if something feels wrong to you.
2006-12-08 12:06:10 · answer #1 · answered by ♫ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the first question is this, what grade are the two of you in?
if you're talking about a difference between middle school and high school, i doubt that would be a good idea, simply because the two of you would be in different schools until you reached high school.
considering the question though, i would have to assume that you are both in high school. in that case, i would say go for it. there is nothing wrong with dating people who are younger or older than you, as long as the two of you are on a close enough level maturity wise.
my girlfriend and i have been together for three and a half years, and we started dating in highschool. i was a senior and she was a sophomore. so i was also two years ahead of her. her mother was slightly uncomfortable with it for a while, but once she saw that we were actually staying together, and she wasn't just having a fling with an older guy, she became more comfortable with it.
so no, it is not wrong, and i say go for it.
2006-12-08 20:09:46 · answer #2 · answered by dr. drew 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope.
Avg. age difference at marriage between a man and women is 3 years (the guy is usually 3+ years older then the wife).
So go ahead and date him.
2006-12-08 20:08:44 · answer #3 · answered by Jay R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 grades is usually fine I would say if you are both in high school. However I'm not sure about a 7th grade and a 9th grade or even 8th and 10th. What grades are you in?
2006-12-08 20:04:45 · answer #4 · answered by uke9999 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's normal, especially in high school. some even date people 3 grades ahead of them!
2006-12-08 20:05:45 · answer #5 · answered by happy311 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends what grade you and him are in. If you are in 8th or older, it will be fine as long as your parents aprove. Age is only a number. GL and GB
2006-12-08 20:04:16 · answer #6 · answered by cul8rhote 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can try, but it will be a bit harder to catch him because of the age difference... but you're still able to catch him.
I dated someone two grades ahead of me and we're engaged! go get him, it'll be worth it!
2006-12-08 20:04:42 · answer #7 · answered by Luna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depend on your ages. I think you should give it a try but if you see any signs of him with other girls or just acting weird with you, dump him cuz he might just end up hurting you.
2006-12-08 20:04:46 · answer #8 · answered by ~Stephie~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One day when you grow older, maybe when you are in college, you will look back and laugh at this question. P..S. Never forget this answer.
2006-12-08 20:06:49 · answer #9 · answered by pee pee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the separation.
2006-12-08 20:04:13 · answer #10 · answered by Dee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋