I first fell in love with him five years ago, but we fell out of contact until I contaced him about 5 weeks ago and we've been seeing each other since then. We have been having sex, again because my feelings for him are so strong and I assumed he felt the same way.
Well recently when I brought up the issue of our "relationship" he said he likes me but he is not sure we are compatible outside the bedroom. What should I do? He treats me well, he breaks plans with his friends to be with me, we spend time together, he is going to drive 1 1/2 hours to see me. Should I stay with it and see if maybe it just takes him a little longer to fall in love? Thanks!!
2006-12-08 12:03:26 · 15 answers · asked by Sweetgirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
From what he said, he doesn't like anything about you but the sex. Get out before he uses you anymore.
Best Wishes,
Sue
2006-12-08 12:05:19 · answer #1 · answered by newbiegranny 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is he in another relationship also? Perhaps he's just using you for physical intimacy and you're taking it for more? You should talk to him and find out where you stand and what he meant by not compatible outside of the bedroom. Have you hung out with him and his friends? Has it only been the two of you?
2006-12-08 20:09:06 · answer #2 · answered by Die S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u like having sex with the guy keep him, but dont think that just because ur boning him its going to make him fall in love with u....and it wont make u a slut to keep an eye out for a guy that might not be so confused about his feelings
2006-12-08 20:09:36 · answer #3 · answered by branbran 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think that you should stay with it becuase he just wants you to be his sex buddy and to me love isnt something that develops over tim its just something that happenes and if hes not ready now he most likely wont be ready later and even if he is ready later it wont last that long and end up hurting you in the end belive me its a one sided love relationship ur his unrequited love nad you should brake it before you get hurt any more then you already are.
hope i helped
2006-12-08 20:10:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i dont think you should have a sexual intercourse with him anymore without making sure that you are the one he want to be with. you know tha sayin: "why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free"?....i think its the same case for you because he is kinda using you. so, you have to make him realize that you arent free. And try not to seem too desparate.
2006-12-08 20:09:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say move on. He most likely is taking advantage of you b/c he likes the sex. Don't let him fool you! You can find way better guys!
2006-12-08 20:07:38 · answer #6 · answered by happy311 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah.. from what i see, he likes sex... but u said he treats u welll. breaks plans with his friends jus to b w/ u.. n drives 1 1/2 hr to see u... may b u should wait alittlebit n see wat happenes next.. n then if u feel that he's wit u jus 4 sex.. u bettter move on... but don take so long...
2006-12-08 20:10:19 · answer #7 · answered by ifaz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Stick it out. If you don't, you'll always wonder what could have been. If you do stick it out and he doesn't respond, then you'll at least have the satisfaction of knowing you did what you could.
I think you'll have bigger regrets not trying, then trying and possibly failing. Good luck to you.
2006-12-08 20:07:38 · answer #8 · answered by sickblade 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is using you. He has told you what you were good for. The longer you let this go the more it will hurt.
2006-12-08 20:14:23 · answer #9 · answered by honey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he dont love u , forget him why u waste time
go and find another
there r many man in this world
2006-12-08 20:08:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋