There's this guy who hugged me once and we used to hang out and stuff and then he found out I liked him and our friendship kinda dropped dead. How do I restore it without being the loser in the end..
2006-12-08 11:34:49 · 2 answers · asked by roxitrin 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He isn't ready for a commitment. Take a few steps back. Relax. Give him space. Then, maybe he'll warm up to you again. Take it slow.
2006-12-08 11:40:06 · answer #1 · answered by honiebyrd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aaagh this happend to me... I really really liked this guy and he asked me if I did, so, I told him and then everything got really awkward and stuff. What I did was I waited maybe a month, then wrote him a letter saying how I confused all my feelings and whatnot, in other words saying I didn't like him, even though I did. I did it to relieve him of feeling uncomfortable.. so.. a few months later we were better friends than we were before! Then I dated another guy, brokeup with him, foundout that the first guy liked me for awhile WHILE i was dating the other one, laughed... then a few months later I like fell for him again, and not too long after that he told me he was in love me =). And right now things are going prettttty good with us =).
So maybe you try something like I did?
2006-12-08 11:51:17 · answer #2 · answered by dabombae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋