He was killed 3 years ago today. Im almost 9 months pregnant and wanted 2 get married before the baby is born. we got married today because it was the only day my husband could take off work. only my mom went with us the rest of my family doesnt know i got married yet, I feel kind of bad that is the same day and that my family will be upset
2006-12-08 11:38:00 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You people are terrible! the only thing that can do is judge! We wanted to get pregnant it didnt just happen, I did not plan on getting married on that same day but i had no other option
2006-12-08 11:45:47 · update #1
no its not bad, maybe that what it needed a little happiness, instead of saddness. Its a shame about your cousin and im sorry for all your loss. it doesn't mean that you will forget him on this day. congradulations on your marriage, and the little one on its way. Your cousin will be there in heart, and will be watching over you.
2006-12-08 11:45:55 · answer #1 · answered by misty blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is so wrong. They can't be happy and sad the same time. For you and for your cousin. It could have been some other day, the baby isn't even coming out until 9 months you say. But it could have been helpful if you asked earlier. Well hope this helps.
2006-12-08 19:40:40 · answer #2 · answered by Abigail 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with it...it's just how it happened. I think the your family would probably be more upset that they weren't able to attend your wedding, but I'm sure they will understand the circumstances.
You did remember your cousin today, so that's a good thing.
2006-12-08 19:42:35 · answer #3 · answered by pyroreview 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you did have 9 months to think about this...seems like planning isnt exactly your strong suit, but your family probably already knows that. It wont make for the best wedding anniversaries, I cant imagine it being the most exciting day of the year...but whats done is done, get over it.
2006-12-08 19:40:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would imagine that the rest of the family will consider it to bad taste getting married on this day.
2006-12-08 19:41:57 · answer #5 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its only bad if you're supersticious, i think you did the right thing getting married, although, if you hadn't gotten pregnant b4 u were married non of this would have happened
2006-12-08 19:40:58 · answer #6 · answered by savanna m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Check this out. If you wanted to get married, never mind what others think or feel. This is your life. I don't believe in superstitions.
2006-12-08 19:42:04 · answer #7 · answered by lhpretty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no connection between the two dates other than the one you make.
2006-12-08 19:40:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think It is a good idea to celebrate a time of love in life or death.
2006-12-08 19:42:31 · answer #9 · answered by All yours 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not wrong - maybe it will turn a day of mourning into a happier time. Good luck!
2006-12-08 19:40:03 · answer #10 · answered by NAN G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋