I was driving around and saw him at one of his girl friends houses...they have been friends for awhile but he told me and his mom he was going to his friends house thats a guy..........well when i saw him i broke up w/ him b/c i was mad he lied about it! well the next day ppl start tellin me they have been having sex and that they have been seen toghether other places too....weve been dating for almost two years.....this happened tuesday and hes been calling me everyday crying and tellin me he loves me and he swears he wasnt cheating on me that he just went there to say hi and chekc on her b/c her n her b/f were having problems and hes best friends w/ her now ex-b/f.......he says hes sorry for just bein there talkin to her and that it wont happen again but i dont know if hes being honest or not......should i get back w/ him or not??
2006-12-08 11:34:51 · 7 answers · asked by ashleymarie_08 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well for me it goes like this so far what u hear was all talk. where is all proof? Pictures etc. That's the problem with ppl they assume that ur having sex. they don't know there self. Just cause a man and a woman are together talking and hanging out don't mean they have done anything. ur accusing him of something u don't no yourself. he might of really was going to his friends house that was a guy. Maybe she called him and really needed to talk to someone. Have u talked to this girl about it? so what ur saying is if ur guy friend called u and said he really needed to talk to someone and could u come over u wouldn't and u was friends with him for a long time. You have to have trust in a relationship which it sounds like u don't. you need to stop listen to ppl and what they say. Ppl likes to start stuff because they can. Get the proof as of now all u got are rumors!! she said he said bull crap!
2006-12-08 11:59:15 · answer #1 · answered by wishstar28 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He lied starting off, if they are just close friends, he could have told the two of you where he was going, and they have been seen together by other people, he's lying, they are together.Let it go,he doesn't mean you no good,it sounds like a ex of mine's.
2006-12-08 11:42:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you jumped all over him because of this, my guess is that deep down, you don't trust him. Maybe you have good reasons for that and maybe you don't, but it means you need to move on. Sorry, girl, but he's not the one for you unless you can learn to believe in him.
2006-12-08 11:38:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should get back with him. If he lied about such a simple thing, who knows what else he is capable of. Be with a guy who will never lie to you about anything.
2006-12-08 11:38:24 · answer #4 · answered by Love_Forever 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He obviously cheated on you. why would you want him back? In my half-century experience and observation.... .guys who cheat continue to cheat. They may show remorse and be good for awhile, but they eventually do it again.
If I was your, I'd move on.
Best Wishes,
Sue
2006-12-08 11:38:12 · answer #5 · answered by newbiegranny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have to ask the question then the answer is NO NO NO
anyone you cant trust, does not tell you the truth STAY AWAY FROM THEM THEY WILL ONLY GET YOU INTO BAD TROUBLE
2006-12-08 11:38:38 · answer #6 · answered by c504play 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a probationary period. Time will tell his sincerity.
2006-12-08 11:43:50 · answer #7 · answered by tagara 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋