I am 20 years old, I have had one boyfriend for like two months, but it was nothing serious at all. I have also had a few guys that I really liked, but they just used me to hook up with. I have been on a lot of dates that the guy would really like me, but none of them I felt deeply attracted to to continue dating. I also don't think that I am that picky. I am also still depressed about the guy that I had sex with for the first time from about half a year ago. It hurts b/c i liked him sooo much and he didnt like me, just used me, I can't get over it either. but anyways,, ALL of my friends have serious boyfriends right now and it makes me sad. Do I have a chance that I will find someone to love and be loved? I think I am very pretty, I guess I just do not have a lot of confidence. What should i do?
2006-12-08 11:42:07 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok all your friends have boyfriends and you are sad about that, what if all your friends jumped off a bridge? would you want to too? I say being single is great right now cause you can educate yourself and ponder why do i want a boyfriend? What guy deserves a great hottie like me? Also don't give your goodies for free, That is something only someone special should share with you because they find You special and respects you. also when you do share your goodies Use protection.
2006-12-08 11:50:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most men are dogs and they don't appreciate women. I just think that you should just wait the man for you will come in time. Also when you meet a dude make him wait a long time for sex that way you'll find out if he only wants to hook up. Stay smart and use condoms whatever you do. Love you first and then worry about loving someone else later. Wishing you the best.
2006-12-08 11:50:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh costly i'm hoping no longer!!!! Cuz i'm 17 and that i dont' see myself w/any of the adult men at my college. or perhaps whilst i bypass to college I consistently get too wrapped up in interpreting to locate time for adult men. different than those that are my acquaintances. i'm hoping its no longer an indication which you would be on my own perpetually, when you consider that's the main depressing thought i will think of precise now. i'm particular the "precise" guy is obtainable someplace. in basic terms have relaxing with relationship for the advise time. stable success!! grasp in there!!!
2016-10-14 07:28:42 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to hear that. to tell you the truth the girl that I'm with now has been threw the same thing. all her ex's and the people she has had sex with used her for sex. but she managed to find me and I love here deeply. It actually hurts us guys who don't want you just for sex. It was really hard to get my girlfriend to trust me and the way she found that she can trust me is we both set naked next to each other and I didn't take advantage of her I just kissed her. she offerd but she backed down from her offer and I respected her choice. so you will find the perfect guy but you will have to find your own way to know how to trust him or not.
2006-12-08 11:47:43 · answer #4 · answered by eclipsefreak 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG!!! I swear I found my twin what's up girl...I feel you... I'm going thru the same thing.. I totally want to be friends with you.. is that cool cause like none of my friends understand me.... lol
he's my little story alot of ish happend to me growing up I didn't think I really had it in me to give guys a chance.. I kept to myself my family was never really a family I had friends but they were never really around when I need to talk about things that happend to me.. they were there to talk about their boyfriends who treated them good and I got sad I hated it sooo much because I wanted a guy who could love me and make me feel like I was someone..
then I met Allen.. my first and last bf.. he found me on a site and we had just happend to live like 45 mins away we really got to know each other over the internet/phone for 3 months.. he really liked me and I did as well.. one day I went to a friends her husband told me something that just broke my heart saying that guys would just use me.. I cried that whole night the next morning I poured out everything to allen about me and what happend I told him we couldn't talk anymore and compared to his ex I wasn't even his type.. surpriselying he didn't care and still wanted to see me we went out to the movies that night he made moves like nothing.. he asked me out that night.. it was wonderful.. til he had to leave.. anyways long story short I met a couple of guys after him but it's been 1 year and 6 months and I have only wanted him regardless of the guys in between the time.. I'm at work right now.. and guess what his picture is taced on right in front of me.. =(
but I would totally like to be friends with you if your cool with it..
don't worry I'm sure we will both find ppl we just got to take time
2006-12-08 11:53:30 · answer #5 · answered by ♥ Miss Mimzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guys that you have been with were not meant for you. Wait for the right guy, you'll just know when he's right for you, trust me.You feel really comfortable with him and you'll feel like he's the man that you are going to be with for the rest of your life. I don't think it has anything to do with looks or confidence, the right guy will come and you have to wait...
2006-12-08 11:47:46 · answer #6 · answered by Ariel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-12-08 11:46:05 · answer #7 · answered by Abigail 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got a full life ahead of you.Don't despair.And yes,you will eventually find that one person for you. Don't dwell too much on what you don't have. Consider volunteering your time to help others around you. Be good to yourself.Take care of yourself. Be happy.
2006-12-08 11:54:00 · answer #8 · answered by tagara 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it time. Someone WILL come to your life that knows how to appreciate u. It may be today, it may be tomorrow, or it may be in a while, but don't rush it. Someone was made for you, so just wait for your prince to come. You're young ma! Have fun and enjoy yourself.
2006-12-08 11:46:44 · answer #9 · answered by ♥Boricua♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What u should do is get some confidence and be flirty and go out more and meet more guys and build a realtionship. TRUST ME there is HOPE 4 u. GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-08 11:47:15 · answer #10 · answered by Risky_Bizness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋