well i was with the guy for about a year % 1/2 and lived with him for most of it. i gave him my all. things were great but they ended up truning around. well i found him cheatin on me and i left. for a long time b4 that things wernt good. the control he was trying to pull was working for me. i ended up rethinking about go back to him and was still seeing him a few times a week. at first i thought he was going to change but i was wrong and i started to feel like i couldnt leave again until i met another guy that help me leave him for good but when he left my life i ended back at his place to see all of the guys that i had lived with and he ended up rapeing me that night. but i feel like something is missing out of my life. i thought i was done with him but i guess i was wrong. i find myself thinking of all the things we went through together and i lose it. i just want him out of my life and mind. why do u find myself missing him when he hurt me and put me in so much fear to leave?
2006-12-08 11:34:26 · 8 answers · asked by angel_not46777 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i had went to the poilce but they could not do anything cuz i didnt go to them right away.
i have tryed to put him out but he still hunts my every thought
2006-12-08 11:40:15 · update #1
becuase u feel guilty you can't let go untill u make thing right.......but u shouldn't feel guilty and he should be the one to make things right.......so just for get about him and put that whole sitituatuion behind u.......and find a new guy ar great friends that can help u to forget about him......or u can confront him (not alone) and tell him how you feel and mabey that will get something off your chest that can help you move on.......trust me he is not ever going to change
2006-12-08 11:39:41 · answer #1 · answered by Blondie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your low self-esteem is stoping you from realizing you deserve better. You should never let someone treat you like that. Raise your standards. Believe you are worth something and deserve to be treated with respect. Have respect for yourself. Love yourself first. Then you'll be able to meet someone and share your life with him.Love is wonderful when you meet the right person. Don't settle. Demand respect, love, honesty. Stop wasting your time with losers.
2006-12-08 11:43:38 · answer #2 · answered by mamabear 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy raped you? And you are not right now at the police station? How is this reasonable to you?
Please honey, you must be in shock or something. You need qualified counseling to get over this. Please try to tell someone.
2006-12-08 11:38:24 · answer #3 · answered by upside down 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to try to find someone you feel safe with and just tell him him you feel safe with him and try to forget about you past........Hope This Helped
2006-12-08 11:38:24 · answer #4 · answered by Derek 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh u got to leave tht behind. no one should be with someone who makes u feel like crap and or puts they hands on ya
2006-12-08 11:36:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may always have a special place in your heart for him and you can still treat him nice but get on with your life ....
2006-12-08 11:38:54 · answer #6 · answered by kris b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you put up with that stuff. he sounds evil if he raped you.get as far away from him as you can.move on and lose him!
2006-12-08 11:39:49 · answer #7 · answered by IT'S JUST ME ! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't look back & don't go back!
2006-12-08 11:39:51 · answer #8 · answered by Just me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋