Family & Relationships - 7 December 2006

from a womans point of veiw

2006-12-07 02:09:31 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I know a girl who is 15 dating a 20 yr. old. is that possible. You know what i mean... or what age should she be.???

2006-12-07 02:09:10 · 7 answers · asked by bananaboo517 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-07 02:08:19 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Why do you still see him when he doesn't invite you to family events, he doesn't take you out where any of his friends can see you with him, he sees the wife weekly because of the kids and sometimes has her over for dinner ( even though the wife refuses to sleep with him) and he hasn't filed for divorce after more than a year?

2006-12-07 02:08:17 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

heres the story.

i ahve known this girl for 5 years. we used to work together when we were younger but that was years ago. we hang out every so often only b/c we live in differant states now. (florida & ohio). last time she told me she loved me and looked me right in the eyes when she did it. i have been inlove with her for years now.
the problem is that she rarly returns my calls. i think she really does care for me alot but i cant be certain. why does she not call very often or why does she never asnwer my calls. she is very sweet which only makes it harder to understand why.

i wrote her an email last week telling her that i loved her and it was time that i told her that. i asked her to let me know so ican either get her out of my head and move on or do something about it. i know ashe does not check her email that often but it may be the only way to get through to her.

does she really like/love me or am i just blind?????

2006-12-07 02:07:58 · 16 answers · asked by Steven Colbert 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-07 02:07:10 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-07 02:06:44 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

The girl i like what should i do

2006-12-07 02:06:33 · 20 answers · asked by jamale f 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-07 02:04:05 · 21 answers · asked by ? 3 in Friends

if you want to marry her too, how much, how many times during the day or week.

2006-12-07 02:03:52 · 10 answers · asked by Queen459789 1 in Singles & Dating

Big dilemma?
my bf is black and my parents are extremely racist and unapproving...i tried talking to them about this in a civilized manner but things only grew worse and they definitively decided that if i continue to date him, they wont finance my college education...
what should i do should i:

a) continue to see him and keep it a secret

b) tel my parents to go f*** themeselves and continue to see him and take out loans for college (which would be around 40 k a year....yes...my college is very expensive lol)

c) go along with my parents rules for the meantime (since i am living with them) until i get to college...

i really want to go with a) but i kno that that would be extremly unfair for him since he has told his whole family about me...and he doesnt deserve and wouldnt like to be kept a secret...i dono....b) also sounds VERY appealing but how the hell am i gona be able to pay all those loans back? i dono....

:-/

2006-12-07 02:00:37 · 14 answers · asked by Andrea P 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok i had this bf that i had trust issues with. not becuz of my own problems but becuz of things he did in the past. for example, my neighbor told me she seen him in the car with another woman. i asked him about and he said it was his ex. ok another one, everytime we would go out he would take it upon himself to stare other women down in front of me. he would look at the their you know what area . then he has lied at different occasions of his whereabouts. now he is a dj on the side . he has a regular job also. i told him that at this time it makes me uncomfortable when he go do these parties becuz i know how these parties are with women around. i use to go with him but since we had all these problems i stopped. besides i have kids i cant go all the time. well i asked him until i trust him again he shouldnt do these parties right now. he said i was getting mad over nothing, you how that goes. well what do you think.

2006-12-07 02:00:13 · 30 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4 in Singles & Dating

iam 8 1/2 months pregnant

2006-12-07 01:58:58 · 24 answers · asked by amanda t 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-07 01:58:40 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2006-12-07 01:58:34 · 3 answers · asked by ungasngas 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Which would be better to play for a girl, Rockstar by Nickelback, or Name by the Goo-Goo Dolls?

2006-12-07 01:57:53 · 15 answers · asked by NIGHTSHADE 4 in Singles & Dating

She's a wonderful girl, very good student, has never hurt me or done something bad, just those normal minors faults. She treats me and my hubby with love. But she goes out to much, it's hard to find time to talk with her, hard to get qualty time. She has many activities, takes part in voluteering activities, swims, a lot of things. Sometimes I miss her so much and since I have a job, things are even more difficult. Well, last weekend my hubby was on a trip, I was feeling lonely so I grounded her just to have her with me. I didn't let her go out, friends just for 1 hour Saturday and Sunday. She asked me What did I do to be grounded???, I just said, well you, you...wel Im your mom and have the right to ground you hun, but don't worry, I'll treat you with all my love.She didnt enjoy her grounding, but at least we finally could talk, I had a wonderful weekend. She just sighed in resignation, made no fuss. It was just a grounding, not a punishment, but she's a bit confused.

2006-12-07 01:57:20 · 33 answers · asked by Laura 1 in Family

we met thru messenger a month back and have been in regular contact since then. he seems to be a nice guy.. but ho wshould i get him to know that i am serious about him, i have told him this but ..he sometimes still seems distant

2006-12-07 01:57:07 · 19 answers · asked by n v 1 in Singles & Dating

Unknowingly my exgirlfriend has just been employed at the same work place as me. Things were left a little awkwardly between us, any advice on how we should get along

2006-12-07 01:56:45 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i told my friends that i slept with a guy that i absolutly HATE but i kinda did and then i told this other guy my freinds name is mine wat should i do

2006-12-07 01:56:25 · 11 answers · asked by orlz 2 in Singles & Dating

Also i read these emails after we split up but it was bugging me as i had this feeling she cheated so i looked at her emails and saw she did. i confronted her over this and now she is denying it and asking me were i got my evidence from what should i say to her should i tell her how i got it?

2006-12-07 01:54:40 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My fiance and I have been together about four years. We've always had In and out drama with his ex. We agreed to take In one of his two children from his previous marriage seeing that his ex wife basically "put their nine year old out of her house" because she "could not deal with her attitude". Their nine year old lived with us for seven months,In this time her mother called maybe four or five times and would blame the daughter for the reason why they didn't talk. When she would visit she would come home and tell my fiance and I that her mother said she Is her mother and no one will take her place and we are not better than her and etc. We put our nine year old on punishment for her constant atiitudes and her mother came over and took her back home and told us we could not see her anymore and she was telling her daughter how we failed as parents. And later called me and told me she was going to hurt me when she sees me because she can't believe I treated "her" daughter the way I did

2006-12-07 01:53:55 · 7 answers · asked by passion 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 26 and married (she's 24) and feel I made a huge mistake. I love my wife to death, but we don't see eye-to-eye on many important issues in life such as having kids, how to care for our parents, etc. She wants kids, I don't. She wants her dad to be able to move in with us instead of going to a home(he has Alhziemers and is getting bad). I would rather shoot myself.

When we were dating, we would always go out and party and have a great time together. Since we got married, she says it's time to grow up, but that's not why I married her...I already have a mother. I miss my good-time girl! I feel as though we were too young to realize what we were getting into as I've seen happen to many young couples. At least we have no kids involved so it's an easy exit if we so choose. But many yong couples make the mistake of having children and are stuck. Shouldn't people wait until they are 30 and have their personal lives in order before getting married???

2006-12-07 01:53:30 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I can't forget my girlfriend. She got married to someone else because she is from a very traditional family and their didn't get along with my parents. She did it because of family pressure. I can't seem to forget her. It's effecting my career and life. Please advise.

2006-12-07 01:53:24 · 10 answers · asked by SMM 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband 45(European) and I (36) were talking many times to have fun by bringing another guy to our bed for play and having fun. Now, for his job, he was assigned to Jeddah traveling every week to Riyadh. I am fantazying imagining that could be a saudi but sex is not permited here. Any ideas?

2006-12-07 01:52:45 · 4 answers · asked by BrazilianLady 1 in Marriage & Divorce

A woman I know divorced her Husband thinking that he was having an affair and then turns around and contacts my Husband (old friend from high school) knowing that he is married and has children. She was lonley and needed a shoulder to cry on. She was relentless. The sad part is that she is a school teacher who is supposed to have morals and set an example to young people. The homewrecker in question even gave herself a stupid nickname, Buffy and lived in this stupid fantasy world giving my Husband a stupid nick name as well. Just curious as to hoe many people out there have no consideration for marriage and care more about themselves and their own feelings regardless of children and marriage vows.

2006-12-07 01:52:31 · 17 answers · asked by thewife 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm talking about the "silver" anniversary,"and that sort of thing.I have to get a gift for a couple's 40 wedding anniversary.Thanks for you help.I appreciate it.

2006-12-07 01:52:25 · 17 answers · asked by CML 2 in Weddings

ok i just got married, im pregnant, and im having some man trouble, maybe you can help me...
i am good looking, i have a gentle personality, i am committed, and i am encouraging to my husband...
so if you had a wife like that, would you be lying to her all the time? and do things behind her back? is it me? what would i have to do to make him stop? i want to trust him... i am trying, but he wont stop hurting me... but i love him and i have so much hope for him... will he ever change? or can i do anything(but not try to get even with him) to help him? i need to know whats going on inside his head!

2006-12-07 01:52:15 · 9 answers · asked by jessica c 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-07 01:52:07 · 8 answers · asked by younglove_1031 1 in Singles & Dating

how do i tell if my friend is after my husband, when it is just me and her alone in the flat she will do everything for herself but when my husband is there she wont do anything for herself.we cant ask her to leave because its her flat we are living at

2006-12-07 01:50:54 · 16 answers · asked by SAMANTHA H 2 in Friends