My husband had shared custody of his daughter but her mother does not think that it is important for her to see him. He has relocated twice to follow his daughter as her mother moved her from city to city. He has her at least two days every week, provides a home for her and everything she needs, AND pays child support and health insurance. He has a great relationship with his kid, very loving and supportive. And she is well-adjusted, going back and forth from house to house weekly is hard but she deals pretty well. She even said the other day that she felt lucky to have two houses, two bedrooms, etc.
So why does the mother continue to treat him like he does nothing for his child, like he doesn't matter? She doesn't want him to share in decision making about the child, and she is not interested in improving their relationship, so that they can have a healthy, working relationship. Why doesn't she see how important he is to his daughter, and that he really is a good parent?
2006-12-07
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