He is not into relationships but I love him so damn much. should i let him go...and if so HOW??????? HELP ME>> he is everything.....his smile his way of hugging and flirting..I LOVE HIm<3 How do i let him go?
2006-12-07 02:43:30 · 19 answers · asked by Tasnia T 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he isn't your everything if he doesn't want to be with you.
duh.
2006-12-07 02:46:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey you love him? But the way he is now, will that fully satisfy you if you were together?? Cause I would litterally need a hug not just a smile from my boy. I think you love the chase too...there are millions of boys out there, and do NOT force anything, youll just be let down in the end.
2006-12-07 02:47:28 · answer #2 · answered by Ginny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel you girl, I knew this guy. Guess what? He turned out to be MY guy! How? I knew he was the most compatible person for me I was ever going to meet right? After a few months trying to convince him we were meant to be and declaring my undying love and loyalty to him, I humbly conceded. I told the brother, "Listen baby my love for you has not changed, but my love for myself has. So if you don't want me I am not going to keep giving up the goods at discount prices(that's what I call friends w/benefits). It's all or nothing, I love you enough to let you go." Some guys are committment-shy and some just like being players. Be brave, let go, it's the only way to find out where you stand. Are you worth your salt, and his?
2006-12-07 02:56:17 · answer #3 · answered by wildblackflower 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG....I recently went through the same thing. You've GOT to let him go. If he's not into relationships he's basically telling you that he won't commit to you & is probably involved with other females. Do you want to hear him say wonderful things & look at you the way he does then wonder how many other women are feeling the same thing? It hurts beyond belief when they say things they know you want to hear, but have nothing solid to give.
2006-12-07 02:53:27 · answer #4 · answered by 5150 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he says he doesn't believe in relationships but what i believe is... love can change everything. Give him time and love and he will start to see u as u see him. He'll change. If he means everything to u, don't hesitate to give him ur everything and he will love u back some day. But be sure u do love him as much as u say u do. All the best!!
2006-12-07 02:50:37 · answer #5 · answered by nauts 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out there and start dating. Trust me, he's doing the same thing, which is why he said, "he's not into relationships". You don't necessarily have to focus on letting him go, just go out and try and meet new people, before you know it you'll meet someone else, he'll be old news.
2006-12-07 02:47:03 · answer #6 · answered by niknac 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
But he doesnt love you?Why cry away the hours if he doesnt feel for you as you do to him. You just have to go on and Mr. Right will find you. I'm sure there are alot of handsome men with his same qualities. Be patient and get on with your life.
2006-12-07 02:51:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's not treating u the way u should be treated..let him go...go out with ur friends start a new hobby that will help u get over him..change ur number, get rid of the things he's gotten u if he did..just get into things u didn't have chance to do before..
2006-12-07 02:46:46 · answer #8 · answered by Wendy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By realising that he was not the perfect one if he did not stay with you. :) Also, try to write down everything that you did not like about him and concentrsate on that. He did not see a future with you, so wait for the one who will.
2006-12-07 02:46:38 · answer #9 · answered by S from Dublin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, he is not into relationships should tell you that being friends is a good idea and for you to find someone else.
2006-12-07 02:46:24 · answer #10 · answered by smeezleme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Back off and give him space. Take it easy, slow down. You could be smothering him. Find out what he is looking for and see if you are that person.
2006-12-07 03:13:35 · answer #11 · answered by bata4689 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋