a girl that you really fancy came out of a 6 year relationship with her fiance 8 months ago, and they had their own place (mortgage),would you be wary about asking her out on a date even if you know that she ended the relationship but you dont know the reason why?
Im a girl asking. The mortgage has been transferred to her sole name (which he knows about) and the ex has moved away(which he knows about)!.
2006-12-07 02:50:39 · 12 answers · asked by Special Lady 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
this is a suxky
2006-12-07 02:52:20 · answer #1 · answered by Ms.Budonkadonk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Minor details!! If a man is interested in a woman who just broke off a long relationship, for whatever reasons, then he should take the opportunity but don't abuse it. DO NOT use the rebound just to get yourself in with her. A man should express his intrest just enough to where the woman knows that he likes her. Then the main thing in any good relationship is to become friends. Be respectfull and honest. If you don't want to make it a "date" just see if there are other ways you can get to know each other first. IE: Helping with tasks, community or group events, games, shopping, whatever will help you spend some time together.
If you do want to ask her on a date, 8 month is normally plenty of time. Ask her out!!
2006-12-07 11:07:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not be wary of asking her on a date (8 months is a good amount of time), but I would be a little uncomfortable in "their" place. Hopefully she has turned it into "her" place as much as possible. Also, she doesn't have to talk much about the fact that they lived there together. It could just be a fact that isn't discussed much. And she and the new guy could spend a lot of time at his place. Once a good relationship is established, it won't matter if you (she) lived there with the ex.
2006-12-07 10:55:58 · answer #3 · answered by ja3po 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure ~ I don't see the problem here. It is just like dating a women who has been married and is now divorced. As you know, most women keep the house in the divorce, then they date, find a new man and now they already have a place to live. There really is no problem at all with dating someone who is no longer in a relationship
2006-12-07 10:54:34 · answer #4 · answered by JUNONNKI 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I guess I would be a little wary, six years is a long time and they obviously were pretty committed at some stage..but... if you feel she might say yes to you asking her out and if you just keep things light for now why not? just see how it goes, just be gentle and don't try to rush her ok?
2006-12-07 10:54:24 · answer #5 · answered by kruella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd be more concerned about starting a relationship too soon with someone just coming out of a lengthy one herself. I wouldn't want to be the "rebound" guy that she dates for a few weeks, then decides - "Hey, wouldn't it be cool if I just stayed unattached for awhile and played the field?"
2006-12-07 10:54:22 · answer #6 · answered by I hate friggin' crybabies 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has baggage and so this would not bother or influence my decision to ask her out at all. If the female was a person with whom I had common interest then it would be a no brainer as far as being interested in her.
2006-12-07 10:53:30 · answer #7 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't be..hell, a girl who owns her own house..sounds like a catch to me
2006-12-07 10:52:42 · answer #8 · answered by Devon T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, why not. She sounds like she has her life together and might be a keeper, lol.
2006-12-07 10:54:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It wouldnt bother me at all...only thing that would be a problem is if she had kids.
2006-12-07 10:52:28 · answer #10 · answered by Robert P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it and send me some pics lol
2006-12-07 10:54:11 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋