we started chattin online, n i think he does like me.. so what do i do? coz m scared to make the first move..
come on guys..give me tips and ideas,to make him notice me more then a friend..n i cant make the first move..
2006-12-07 02:51:54 · 15 answers · asked by Taz 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hi there,
Well to be honest it might not be the answer what you expected but if the guy does not feel that much for me ,so he could ask me out-then I guess no matter how much I fancy him,I just would not make the first step!
I know I sound a bit old-fashioned,and perhaps I am,but isn't it the guy's "job" to ask you out for a date.Unless you are 100% sure he fancies you but just too shy,not that's different.You could give him obvious signals.
Otherwise if the guy does not ask you to go out and do something together-there must be a reason!!
All the best:
B.
2006-12-07 03:31:58 · answer #1 · answered by amerika 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why can't u make the first move?
have u met him? or just on line? have u seen what he looks like ? do u know his age?
its kind of scarry meeting people on line because even though u have chatted with them on line and think u have a connection..u dont know how honest that other person is being with u....
but if after all of this that u want to meet him..set up a meeting in a local place..maybe the mall or at the movies..just make sure u take friends with u...
2006-12-07 10:56:24 · answer #2 · answered by luvutaz1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you seen a picture of this guy or talked to him on the phone? If not I would advise you to, just incase !
If you get to talk to him on the phone it would be much easier to drop hints then by the tones of your voice and the way you say certain words.
At the same time why don't you just suggest meeting up for a drink or something, you don't have to say for a date or anything, it could be as friends and see what his response is then.
2006-12-07 11:14:15 · answer #3 · answered by Jo C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how do u know that he doesn't have a girlfriend?make sure he isn't gonna slice and dice u like we just heard about a few weeks ago.if it is all good them ask to meet him somewhere to chill for a little while so u can know him not just what he says to u in your chat there are a lot of loonies out there.
2006-12-07 11:18:42 · answer #4 · answered by KISS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him your number and talk to him on the phone more so than online. It is very different ,and go with the flow from there.
2006-12-07 10:54:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't understand why you can't make the first move?
if you are interested in a guy, there is no reason the girl can't ask them out first..why should it always be left to the guy?
2006-12-07 10:53:40 · answer #6 · answered by Tek ~aka~Legs! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it depends on the type of guy he is,if he's easy going then you shouldn't be afraid to ask him if he likes you,but if he's one of thoses thouchy/feelings person tell him you like someone and most likly he's gonna want to know who so you tell him to take a wild guess and if he guesses him and it's right well then you got him,but if he's one of thoses feel good in the moment guys don't evevn worry about him well this is my advice to you good luck
2006-12-07 10:59:44 · answer #7 · answered by Tina S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has he seen a picture of you? I would have to know what a woman looked like before I asked her out, unless it was a blind date that I agreed to go on.
2006-12-07 10:55:07 · answer #8 · answered by Gilligan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show him that you're interested in him--ask him about things he's interested in, show an interest in them too--and that you appreciate him, and he'll want to spend time with you if he's into you. Touching him shows you are interested too. ;)
If you want him to ask you out, give him an idea of what you'd enjoy doing.
2006-12-07 10:56:37 · answer #9 · answered by moto 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mention a good movie that is in theaters that you would like to go see
2006-12-07 10:54:04 · answer #10 · answered by Ms.Budonkadonk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋