I understand the whole "night out with the guys" deal, but why date them? Why have one as a girlfriend? I don't get it. There can't be any mystery there - you've seen all there is to see. Is the sex really that much better and is that what it's really all about. Somebody please clue me in!!!
2006-12-07 02:49:38 · 14 answers · asked by brewcitybabe4 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's a status symbol for the insecure. Those that have had the pleasure of such a benefit probably view it as a prize that he was chosen. Reality, it's far better to know them as friends or not have them. It is truly a popularity contest. Bring her by a friends home, or share a meal with someone and all eyes that know who she is will turn your way. Is that the objective? Best wishes and good luck.
2006-12-07 03:17:53 · answer #1 · answered by Gary M 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Guys are generally visual. They are attracted to what they see first and the emotional aspects of the relationship come later. Some guys like the excitement strippers present. Guys don't like a boring plan jane type of woman. Girls are more emotional When they start a relationship. I hear this a lot from guys; that nice guys finish last when it comes to attraction a girl. Many times guys get turn down because they are too nice.they want someone who they feel can protect them. That mean a guy got to present this rough guy image.
2006-12-07 03:06:29 · answer #2 · answered by Willie K 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think of it has to do with the delusion. think of courting a pornstar: what you notice on exhibit screen or on point is an act. it ought to no longer be the certainly individual. it relatively is delusion that they be remarkable or wild in mattress, yet once you do get there they choose romance like all different lady. Having some acquaintances that I hangout at video clips or go on trip trips with they say as quickly as the delusion wears off the actuality is amazingly confusing for the guy to handle. you may comprehend each guy needs her sexually & you may combat off jealousy & concern all of the time because of the fact some men could be financially useful & spend hundreds or hundreds on her & you may basically take her to Chili's. Why date a stripper/dancer? an excellent style of the time men think of basic accessibility to intercourse. in specific circumstances it relatively is because of the fact the girls folk are much less confusing to talk to. they commence off the communication or make the 1st flow that are particularly troublesome for men. we are advised females like undesirable boys vs extreme-high quality men. extreme-high quality men visit strippers bcuz it relatively is all they have left. in specific circumstances.
2016-10-05 00:13:25 · answer #3 · answered by Erika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because their "job" involves them getting naked, does that make them any less of a person?
Aren't women always telling men to look beyond the physical attributes of a woman? Hypocrisy perhaps?
Some of you ladies are unbelievable!! Pull your heads from your a**es and understand that these women can be, in fact, lovely natured women who have realised that they can make substantial money for working just a few hours a night and enjoy a better standard of living than most 9-5 office workers.
Are women who go topless on the beach seen in the same "slutty" manner?
Personally I smell jealousy because these women have the figure that most of you puerile and ignorant creatures dream of but are too lazy to do anything about and too shy to show off.
2006-12-07 02:52:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
I would like to know the same thing.
To the other answers:
Strippers are not normal people and stripping is not just another job. They are whores who sell sex.
2006-12-07 02:55:26 · answer #5 · answered by kristina55 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
when I dated a stripper it was more about the relaxed times we had. Yes the sex was great, but we had not secrets from each other and besides, I made some good $$ stripping myself for her friends party!
2006-12-07 02:53:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
it not that they have showen you everything. Its because most strippers love sex and nothing else. That way guys dont have to do all of that dating stuff. Just have sex and sleep.
2006-12-07 02:52:21 · answer #7 · answered by Drew9595 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Beats me, must be the thrill of it I guess or maybe its a status thing. I know I would never consider it.
2006-12-07 02:52:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I really think it's an ego trip for them. They can brag to their friends and beat on their chests.
2006-12-07 02:53:22 · answer #9 · answered by Scooter 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I suppose it's a bit of a consolation prize in leiu of dating a MODEL instead.
2006-12-07 02:52:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋