my cousin die of AIDS in march of this year my baby name is after her and my baby looks just like her and everything because of this we all are still not over this this is very hard on aunt the most every time the doctor said she only have a current time to live she out loved it and so on and so on and then she adpot a baby and the baby got sick and she got sick and got put in the hos. and then she die like 4 hours later.
2006-12-07 02:38:39 · 10 answers · asked by fishyinmytank 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
It could take you years to heal the wounds in your heart...Anyway the Bible promised that the time is very near when God will resurrect our loved ones and rejoined us in the Paradise on earth..Read Bible and you will see..Hope it could give you faith and comfort.
2006-12-07 02:44:28 · answer #1 · answered by missy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will never get over a loved one...it's impossible! After some time...and I am talking maybe two years, the pain will subside and it won't be as intolerable. It is always hard the first year...with birthday's and Christmas...all the holidays...it just sucks and you have to teach yourself how to cope. Try and surround yourself with the people you love during those times and always take the time to grieve...grieving is a huge ...and it needs to be done in order to get to the part where you can look back and smile .....not always cry. It will happen, trust me, it just takes time...and alot of time and Patience. You will get to a point where you can make it through the day without crying or feeling like someone just kicked you in the stomach. Grieving is a long process but you have to do it in order to move past the hurt. My heart goes out you and I hope that you and your family can find some peace. God be with you.
2006-12-07 11:41:47 · answer #2 · answered by Smoops 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grief is normal and every person takes their own time. A good rule of thumb is at least a year for a truly loved person, as was your cousin. Death is a trauma and grief is natural. Don't let anyone tell you to snap out of it etc. It is your right to grieve, its something you need to do. Do something positive in memory of your loved ones. It will not erase the grief but it will make you feel as if you are doing something for them.
2006-12-07 10:42:44 · answer #3 · answered by fancyname 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've lost a loved one (boyfriend for 3 years) to lung cancer and it was the saddest thing on earth to watch a healthy young man just deteriorate to nothing before my eyes. I know what you are going through and that was just a little over 2 years ago and I still think about him. I also know he is no longer suffering and is with other loved ones waiting for us to be with them again someday. The grief you are feeling will fade away but the love and memories will be with you always and treasure them. I know they are times when you miss them badly but trust me , they want you to be happy and move on with your life. Yes it takes time to heal but you will heal.
2006-12-07 10:50:29 · answer #4 · answered by ♦ Phoenix Rising♦ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry for your loss. Grief is different for everyone. Taking one day at a time is all you can do. You will always remember your loved one. In time when you think about your cousin you will be able to smile. God Bless
2006-12-07 10:46:07 · answer #5 · answered by autumn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's going to be different for everyone, depending on the person and the circumstances. All I can say is try to celebrate her life by living yourself! Accept the fact that you'll never stop missing her because of the love you had for her. Hopefully that will help.
2006-12-07 10:43:23 · answer #6 · answered by niknac 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm so sorry for u... it'll take time... but then time heals all wounds. Think of it in a positive way, u have a beautiful baby who resembles ur beautiful cousin... so it's like u'll never forget her. U will always find her in ur daughter and that is a beautiful way of thinking about it... she lives through ur baby.
2006-12-07 10:45:28 · answer #7 · answered by nauts 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My sister died (of cancer) about 15 years ago, and I still haven't gotten over it. I still miss her, and wonder how life would have been different if she was still living.
However, the grief goes away in time, especially when your Heart learns what your Head already knows ... and that is as long as you remember her she is still with you in spirit.
2006-12-07 10:47:52 · answer #8 · answered by Daddy Big Dawg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry hear that your cousin pass away by aid ! She must kept in your heart forever !!
2006-12-07 10:54:15 · answer #9 · answered by sweet guy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
accept my sympathy, just learn to get over it and move on. Death is inevitable. life must go on, she's gone and 20yrs of mourning cannot bring her back.
2006-12-07 10:46:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋