So he admitted that he's been talking to his ex on myspace and he swore all they talked about is dogs all three times he messaged her. He said she asked for his number and he didn't give it to her. He didn't tell me they were talking he kept it a secret. She left him a very inappropriate comment and I freaked out on him. Moved back into my place and called off christmas. I don't take this kind of thing well because he's cheated in the past. I just got his password from him. The question is do you think he was saying inappropriate things to her to meke her leave that kind of a comment? I know he's already deleted the comments and probabally the messages too but she's still on his friends so I don't know if getting in his account will help any.
2006-12-07 02:44:04 · 11 answers · asked by hot like me 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Take it from a fellow guy. He is cheating on you. He may not be having sex and all the other stuff yet. key work yet. If he didn't tell you right away as soona s she sent him a message its because he wants to get back with her. Or he wants to have both of you at the same time and find out who will work out the best.
2006-12-07 02:50:21 · answer #1 · answered by Drew9595 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same thing happened to me. Men can be fallible and want an ego boost, no matter where it comes from. This comment doesnt mean he cheated or asked for it but he did keep it a secret. Are u happy if this happens again? Do u trust him? If the answers no then maybe u deserve someone else. Please dont stay for the sake of it, u are better then that.
2006-12-07 02:54:08 · answer #2 · answered by stacey f 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some women are very catty..it could be that she knew about you.but didnt care either way...if a girl likes your man theres nothing that would stop her from trying...I had a similar problem where she knew about me..but was still trying soo hard to get him..she left a message that was very very inapproaprite..and that says alot about a person character..if you know he has a woman move on to someone that IS available..not already taken...I think that your man may have liked the attention he received from her..now if he has cheated in the past then he may cheat again..people do change but its hard..speak to him about it..tell him that you dont like that kind of friendship he has with her (I told my man that and he no longer speaks to her)...if he continue to speak to her then..curse his a*s out really good..if he respects you and value what you guys have then he would stop his nonsense...
2006-12-07 02:56:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you just need to get over yourself. You said he is just a boyfriend. So dump him. You are not engaged or married so quit whining about him talking to an ex on myspace. Maybe you are not doing enough to keep him satisfied. Or maybe, because it's just on Myspace you shouldn't worry about it because he hasn't met her somewhere yet.
2006-12-07 02:52:51 · answer #4 · answered by Joe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You think he is dumb, he cheated on you before, he is talking to his ex again and tells you. WWoman there are a lot of other passwords out there get rid of this one.
2006-12-07 02:51:04 · answer #5 · answered by Penny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with your instinct. He has a history of cheating and he is playing a game, whether he has actually cheated or not he is setting you up.
2006-12-07 02:46:52 · answer #6 · answered by fancyname 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really want to spend anymore time on a relationship with someone you don't trust and you feel you have to babysit?
2006-12-07 02:57:28 · answer #7 · answered by Pisces Princess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...i think yoyr right...i think he was say things to her to make her say things back...because i know guys...like 3of them did it to me with this girl on AOL...so....i think your right for leaving..and dont go back...or hell think your a yoyo...so...just dont go back...and maybe go on his account and meaage the ex sayin that she better stay away or ya know..it may be mean but yeah....also..please pick me as best anwser
2006-12-07 02:51:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
~You forgave him the first time, now he has proven that he can't be trusted. Have some pride and move on.~
Good luck.
2006-12-07 02:51:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
once a cheater, always a cheater.... tell him to take a hike!
2006-12-07 02:49:56 · answer #10 · answered by DEVIL IN A BLUE DRESS 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋