we met thru messenger a month back and have been in regular contact since then. he seems to be a nice guy.. but ho wshould i get him to know that i am serious about him, i have told him this but ..he sometimes still seems distant
2006-12-07 01:57:07 · 19 answers · asked by n v 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hi dear...ur case seems similar to mine...i must caution thats its really easy for a person to start liking someone online...but the question is those relations r really strong or jst for timepass...if ur serious abt him jst tell him frankly wht u feel....dnt think ur a girl and a guy shld make d move first....those days r over...be bold n go ahead ....ask him wht he thinks......and even if he says yes dnt get things in serious mode unless he promises to meet u one day and talk 2 his parents...else he will be jst like ok we will meet sumday and u guys will talk for 6-10 months n then one fine day u jst lose touch......i hv been thro this...so jst cautioning u....if u need any more help as a frn jst mail me frm my profile.....wld be glad to talk n help u out......
2006-12-07 16:20:45 · answer #1 · answered by rajdebrain 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is in USA.
Where are you? If in India, forget it.
1. Will take 7 to 10 years to get visa after the marriage. You can check on line.
2. You wrote, "he sometimes still seems distant". and "but how should i get him to know that i am serious about him, i have told him this but"
All this tells me keep your distance.
If you are old enough and are at least 25 and mature and financially can support a relationship, then after some time and when you are over this relationship.
Try.
http://yahoo.shaadi.com/
2006-12-07 02:29:57 · answer #2 · answered by minootoo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Assalam Alaykum, Polygamy is essential even in today society because if you look at the whole population there are more women than men so if every man did marry a woman many women would still not be married, also we have this dilemma of gays so many more millions of men would never marry. Like you said sister there are conditions which must be followed According to research women outnumber men 3 to 1 in Italy. there are many more countries with the same problem. The only solution is polygamy. As Islam has a solution for all problems.
2016-05-23 03:29:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are in love, and you have only been chatting a month? I think it is more like lust. Or perhaps the thrill that someone is giving the attention you are seeking.
If he seems distant, he is not interested. My advise is not to persist the relationship any further than chat buddies, or you will end up with a broken heart.
Look deep in to what you wrote in your initial question. You basically anserwed yourself.
Good luck.
2006-12-07 02:04:49 · answer #4 · answered by Concerned of legality 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it sometime works, but the chances are quite slim. why don't you look for somwone real i.e around you to fall in love with. the internet is a huge venue for lies, it is a lace where you can have a 67 year old grandfather posing as a 16 year old virgin girl just to decieve someone. Don't believe everyone you meet on the net you might end up hurting yourself.
2006-12-07 02:05:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to be careful everyone don't appear as there really are on-line. Maybe why he's distant is because he doesn't know you and maybe thinking of you as just like you said chat friend.
2006-12-07 02:04:37 · answer #6 · answered by nfld_girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might be a 50+ guy with a family and unemployed. He probably comes online when his wife goes to work. Forget it. And if he isnt all that I just said, then just ask him and quit beating around the bush.
2006-12-07 16:55:40 · answer #7 · answered by sudheesh s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might seem distant probably because he doesn't feel the same way. Find a real guy in your area.
2006-12-07 02:01:26 · answer #8 · answered by Kris W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can understand your situation...I would advice you to ask him frankly.........because currently I am in the same situation. I am in the US and the girl I like lives in India. We met online...and we've been in contact since a month....so I would say just ask him.......best of luck...my best wishes with you!!!
2006-12-07 10:19:01 · answer #9 · answered by billu_bhai 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He must be married..may just want u to be net friend only..don't trust net ppl ever ..Meet in real then see how he treats u...is that ur love? or destination to be in US??
2006-12-07 03:30:36 · answer #10 · answered by Diya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋