Family & Relationships - 7 December 2006

what first attracts u to a girl and why?

2006-12-07 01:15:18 · 22 answers · asked by buggs8498 2 in Singles & Dating

There has been no affairs or anything like that. She is my best friend and I don't know what to do. HEEELLLLPPPPP!!!!

2006-12-07 01:14:26 · 31 answers · asked by scgraphix 2 in Marriage & Divorce

we just had our first born almost 3 months ago and my mommy instincts kicked in immediately.
i feel like all my husband thinks he needs to do is go to work everyday (i work f/t too).
how can i tell him he needs to dig in at home without making him feel like a bad dad??
he is a great person and i love him so much, but i need him to pitch in more.

do guys just need someone to tell them what to do??? i mean, instead of expecting him to just know what to do, should i be making him a list or directing him???

thanks all!

2006-12-07 01:14:06 · 10 answers · asked by joey322 6 in Family

My boyfriend lives really far away and i only see him like every other weekend. I'm constantly horny all the time and masturbation doesn't satisfy me anymore. Are there any ideas for what I can do?

2006-12-07 01:13:13 · 19 answers · asked by Bethany 2 in Singles & Dating

sadly i born as congenital absence. i am sad that i will not able to have kids. i wonder if there is a man out there can accept me for what i am? accept that i can provide his child on his own. i dont mind adopting. but i wonder can the man accept? this is not my fault. nobody's fault. i am born like this

2006-12-07 01:12:30 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My hubby has tried to stop smoking but has failed. He has tried the gum, patch and cold turkey. When he stops he gets moody, sleepless nights and hot flashes. We get no family support b/c they are all smokers themselves. I try not to talk to him about it. I do worry about him. I hate him smoking. I can't stand the smell and he can't even hug me or kiss me b/c he claims he can't stand the smell himself. I feel like everytime he stops in puts our marriage at risk and we both feel distance. Sometimes I'm so fed up with the situation I'll buy him a pack just so I have my husband feeling back to normal. What should I do?

2006-12-07 01:12:28 · 8 answers · asked by Baby 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-07 01:12:11 · 12 answers · asked by dirt29180 3 in Family

I emailed this guy, who I think likes me. He hasn't emailed me back. I emailed him yesterday about 2 pm. What is wrong and what should I do next?

2006-12-07 01:11:57 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

After you marry who is more likely to be disappointed more often....

Men realizing their dream person is a nightmare
or
Women realizing their dream person is a nightmare

2006-12-07 01:11:54 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Is it that he's feeling guilty about an affair that he has been secertly having? or could he just be one nasty sack of ****? do tell me what do you think.

2006-12-07 01:11:53 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Does anyone believe in blind date ? or e-dating... ??

like just chat for some days.. get to know eachother and then meet somewhere for a coffee or something.... am in search of a nice friend like that.... am from COIMBATORE, INDIA.... anyone for COIMBATORE ? for friendship ?

2006-12-07 01:11:42 · 9 answers · asked by Zombie.... 2 in Singles & Dating

what to do with a man who always makes you believe in something but in the end always has excuses not to do what he promised. When you start arguing about it or you just point him towards his promise - he gets completely agressive, starts shouting at me, hitting me in the face ... in earlier days he thought nothing was wrong, now afterwards he feels bad, he cries and asks for forgivenness... there is a change but I don't understand it anymore and after several discussions, deep conversations, promises again, he continues his behaviour and I don't know what to do anymore ... I'm an optimist, I always put it out of my mind and go on ... but it starts to weigh very heavy on me, my job, my spirit ... in an hour he will call me .. to ask me what I think .. to be honest I don't know what to say anymore ..

2006-12-07 01:11:41 · 8 answers · asked by JS 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have several female friends that are pretty and this makes my wife jealous even though I never flirt with them or do anymore than occasionally hug them. She's usually pretty much ok with it, but sometimes she gets convinced that I want them or something. I show my wife lots of attention and am nothing but friends with the girls, should I get rid of them or just explain to my wife that I love her and no one else?

2006-12-07 01:11:12 · 18 answers · asked by eclint929 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Serious answers please,can't have an orgasm with my boyfriend though crazy in love with him & find him sexy?
new answers are also welcomed

2006-12-07 01:11:07 · 10 answers · asked by mallouna 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm in a 5month relationship right now and we are on a break. We've still been communicating, seeing each other, and she tells me she loves me, and I tell her the same. Last night she texted me "You know I love you right, well I was asked out on Friday and I'm going to go, I need to know what i feel for you is true I beleive it is I love you I just need to know before anything else" Personally I'm extremely upset, but I'm unsure if this is a common thing in a "break" and maybe I'm just over reacting.

2006-12-07 01:09:52 · 10 answers · asked by markypoo100 1 in Singles & Dating

My b'f left me & he said that his no more in love with me but I dont believe him b'coz if he would have really left me then he would never feel jealous if I speak, laugh & make fun with other guys. I've 3 male frnds who r even his frnds he keeps on asking them that what is the relation between me & the guy with whom I was speaking. If his does'nt even care for me & does'nt love me anymore then why is he interfering in my life. I feel that he still loves me & even I love him very much. I love him like anything. If keep on making him jealous like this way then will he come back to me. I really need him. I want him to come back to me. I really miss. Please tell me will this work.

2006-12-07 01:09:11 · 21 answers · asked by nutan_nutty 2 in Singles & Dating

That's what I'm dealing with...I wonder whether it'll kill me or not, 'cause it's unbearable otherwise.

2006-12-07 01:09:11 · 8 answers · asked by Karen R 1 in Singles & Dating

Well I have been friends with this man for a while. Recently he told me that he had fallen in love with me and wanted to take things beyond friendship. Things seemed to progress quite naturally into a "relationship" nothing however was defined. So I asked him where I stood because I was falling in love with him and wanted to know if we were indeed a couple. He got freaked out and said that although he loves me he doesn't want to rush into anything. What does this mean how can you love someone and not want to be with them? May I add that we haven't slept together before anyone says that he was just after sex.

2006-12-07 01:09:06 · 16 answers · asked by Yaz 2 in Singles & Dating

help me

2006-12-07 01:07:49 · 36 answers · asked by ian n 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-07 01:07:29 · 16 answers · asked by stanfan01 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-07 01:07:02 · 6 answers · asked by Scott F 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-07 01:06:45 · 20 answers · asked by shirley p 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-07 01:05:49 · 2 answers · asked by tanman 1 in Singles & Dating

I live with my uncle. He supports me financially. He put me through college, and still paying for my grad school. Recently he's become an as-s. He insults me all the time, and calls me names. I guess it could it could amount to verbal abuse. On one hand i feel like i should respect him and lay low because he is helping me out. On the other, i feel like **** all the time and i cant take this anymore. He has been physically abusive at times. Im 22, and cant really afford a place of my own yet. You know he is only nice when he is drunk. other than that its like living with satan. I wish that one, day,i can move out at night and not even tell him. He is an ********

2006-12-07 01:05:26 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

rather than call her if he is shy?

2006-12-07 01:04:08 · 13 answers · asked by XCuteX 1 in Singles & Dating

These days many women remove most/all body hair, yet there are some men who prefer the more natural look- either full bush, pits + some even legs. Are there guys there who've made this request or women who've been asked to be a bit hairier?

As a woman if you've let your body hair grow out did you get any positive response from fellas?

2006-12-07 01:03:48 · 14 answers · asked by gomphus 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-07 01:03:41 · 13 answers · asked by Scott F 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok i did nothing wrong, i was faithful to him and he keeps lying to me and sneaking behind my back, like hanging out with his one friend who is a baddd influence on him, and also coming home high:(!!!! but then when i confront him about it, he always finds out a way to turn it around to make me feel guilty for not trusting him....ugh! sorry, i am only venting... this is my husband i am talking about, i am 8 months pregnant and he wont stop smoking, mostly cigs... but i really dont like it at all. but he keeps saying that once the baby cames, THEN he'll stop smoking and that hes just stressed out... has this ever happened to anyone? do you think he might stop once he sees his son... he really loves him... and guys please be nice to your wives when they are pregnant!!!!!!! let her trust you... ugh, i feel like a detective all the time tryingto find out what hes up to... and i usually always find something...

2006-12-07 01:02:13 · 17 answers · asked by jessica c 1 in Singles & Dating

I only talk to girls properly when there's no one else to here what I'm saying I feel free like no one will laugh at me.

2006-12-07 01:02:09 · 6 answers · asked by Shim 2 in Singles & Dating

I live with my uncle. He supports me financially. He put me through college, and still paying for my grad school. Recently he's become an as-s. He insults me all the time, and calls me names. I guess it could it could amount to verbal abuse. On one hand i feel like i should respect him and lay low because he is helping me out. On the other, i feel like **** all the time and i cant take this anymore. He has been physically abusive at times. Im 22, and cant really afford a place of my own yet. You know he is only nice when he is drunk. other than that its like living with satan. I wish that one, day,i can move out at night and not even tell him. He is an ********

2006-12-07 01:01:30 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships