Serious answers please,can't have an orgasm with my boyfriend though crazy in love with him & find him sexy?
new answers are also welcomed
2006-12-07 01:11:07 · 10 answers · asked by mallouna 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i am sorry, i was unclear, i meant unresolved in voting for undecided question (i couldn't pick the best answer and it resulted in a tie and i am waiting since 4 weeks)
2006-12-07 01:24:33 · update #1
please vote the unresolved question mentioned in DETAILS ABOVE put 4 weeks ago
2006-12-08 04:28:37 · update #2
You need to relax and not think about it while you are having sex. Just let the moment be what it is.
2006-12-07 02:20:22 · answer #1 · answered by smeezleme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For girls to orgasm you usually need to be mentally stimulated too. Most of the time girls are focused on making sure the guy has a good time and don't focus on whether or not they will get off. My advice is the same as someone else said too: masturbate, figure out what you like to get off and then you can tell him. Experiment too but you really just need to let go of inhibitions, be greedy and focus on yourself. Guys generally don't mind as they want their girlfriends to get off too!
2006-12-07 10:17:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, you need to manually bring yourself to an orgasm over and over again by means of masturbation. After you master the technique to climax on your own, then if needed, you'll be able to assist him when you are having intercourse to come to a climax!!!
It also helps if you let your mind wander and fantasize about the things that turn you on, and if you deep breathe when you start reaching you peak it will enhance your ability to reach your climax!!!
ENJOY!!
2006-12-07 09:29:45 · answer #3 · answered by "N"saysable 1iric 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To answer this question, I would need more information. Have you ever had an orgasm by another man? Have you ever had an orgasm by masturbation? Some women for medical reasons can't.
Have him do oral sex on you.
2006-12-07 09:16:10 · answer #4 · answered by » mickdotcom « 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you been able to have an orgasm before? If yes, then show him what he needs to do to get you off.
2006-12-07 09:13:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not really an expert on this level but it doesn't have to mean anything. You should experiment a little and try telling him what you like in sex.
2006-12-07 09:13:30 · answer #6 · answered by kupumentira 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you and your boyfriend can talk about it than do so and then start experimenting with positions and some foreplay as long as you both are open and honest and patient you will be able to
2006-12-07 09:14:05 · answer #7 · answered by bethan2028 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
~Has he gone down on you? You have to have colitoral stimulation to acheive an orgasm.~
2006-12-07 09:14:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
more stimulation is usually the answer -- unless there are other problems --- more foreplay take your time make sure you both enjoy it more
2006-12-07 09:27:55 · answer #9 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
can you have one on your own? if so, incorporate your techniques when you are both together. tell him what you do to get yours and he might be able to help you out. good luck.
2006-12-07 09:14:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋