Is it ok for a married man to masterbate every now and then? The wife thinks no way and may want a divorce.?

Answer 1

Your wife is right, but she may not have told you why she feels that she is against masterbating (because she herself may not understand that ugly feeling). If you are going to masterbate, don't ever tell your wife or get caught (it's ok to masterbate just by yourself). If you are caught masterbating off of some pornography, or while thinking about other women (you already have her, so if you masterbate, it's while thinking about others) you are committing the sin of adultery, and it hurts her. It's the mind that gets hurt, not the body. So it's not the masterbation that hurts her; it's the fact that you were masterbating while thinking about other women. So now that you know more, you know what you must do... Next time you masterbate a) you hide under a rock or b) you masterbate while looking at her.

Answer 2

Nothing wrong . . this is a normal action for men. Women have to realize that men think about something sexual more than 10x a day than women and a woman's sex drive isn't as strong as a man's. If she's that worried she'll have to boost her sex drive to try to keep up with you, but if she says she's not in the mood she shouldn't get mad if you have to go to the bathroom or where ever, and same goes for her. Don't be upset she just needs to realize that men and women do differ in the fact that men have a stronger sexual drive. Do what you need to do, but maybe she'd be more interested if she had toys to realize that having "time to yourself" isn't all that bad either. Hope this helps. jl

Answer 3

I'm married and I think it's OK. Maybe she can help you, that way she doesn't feel left out or that you need to pleasure yourself because you don't feel attracted to her.
Are you watching porn while you do it? Maybe that's what she objects to.
Find out why she thinks it's wrong and why she would threaten a divorce over this. I would suspect a deeper reason than masterbation!
Just my thoughts.

Answer 4

As long as you are giving her what she needs sexually then absolutely masturbation is cool. All married men do it, I'm sure. She may feel that because you do this, SHE is inadequate. Assure her otherwise. It is a problem if you are substituting masturbation for intimacy with your wife.

Answer 5

There is nothing wrong with a little self gratification every now and again. Don't let it get in the way of your sex life with your wife, but don't be ashamed that you do it. Tell your wife that you don't always want to go through the act of having sex in order to please yourself.

Answer 6

Men who masturbate often find that their wives react in a hostile manner. This is because the wives feel they are not doing their job in the sexual department . This is really not true. What you would need to do is encourage her to share in this pleasure of yours, perhaps by assisting you. If this does not work, do your thing in private without her knowledge.Why make her feel bad??

Answer 7

She want's a divorce because you Wack Off? At least you're not out cheating on her. Although, maybe you should if you have to spank the monkey!

Answer 8

Are you kiddin? It's normal for guys to do that. Divorce is a little extreme, don't you think?

Answer 9

We know you have to answer to your real master and so we expect you to spank it. Poor slaves to the little pink ( insert other colour here) ruler of your little minds.

Answer 10

yes it is it can increase how hard and long you can go with her tell her its not that you dont want her but its something you enjoy regardless of how often you have sex together and that will never change